I share my story about mental illness with Dr Farihah of HDOK , Sandakan.
I think first of all, I would like to clarify what STIGMA and DISCRIMINATION means because sometimes the two are confused with each other.
STIGMA - someone sees you in a negative way because of your mental illness
DISCRIMINATION - someone treats you in a negative way because of your mental illness
So STIGMA happens when a person defines someone by their illness rather than WHO they are as an individual. For example, they might be labelled “psychotic” rather than “a person experiencing psychosis”.
Second is to understand what is a mental illness
There are many different conditions that are recognised as mental illnesses. The more common types are:
Anxiety disorders
Mood disorders (eg Bipolar)
Psychotic disorders - hallucinations, delusions , schizophrenia
Eating disorders - Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, Binge eating
Impulse Control & Addiction disorders (kleptomaniac, pyromania, compulsive gambling)
Personality disorders
OCS
PTSD
Seven Things You Can Do to Reduce Stigma
* Know the facts. Educate yourself about mental illness including substance use disorders.��
* Be aware of your attitudes and behaviour. Examine your own judgmental thinking, reinforced by upbringing and society.��
* Choose your words carefully. The way we speak can affect the attitudes of others.��
* Educate others. Pass on facts and positive attitudes; challenge myths and stereotypes.��
* Focus on the positive. Mental illness, including addictions, are only part of anyone's larger picture.��
* Support people. Treat everyone with dignity and respect; offer support and encouragement.��
* Include everyone. It's against the law to deny jobs or services to anyone with these health issues.
同時也有2部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過5萬的網紅Daphne Iking,也在其Youtube影片中提到,I share my story about mental illness with Dr Farihah of HDOK , Sandakan. I think first of all, I would like to clarify what STIGMA and DISCRIMINATIO...
ptsd means 在 鋼鐵媽媽的Andrew與山姆 Iron Mom’s Andrew & Sam Facebook 的最佳解答
7. 🌸 Sharon
I enjoy all the beauties and the good in life: a bouquet of flowers, rainbows, the delicacy of porcelain china, the touch of snuggly fabrics, the scent of nature, the list could go on and on.
Samuel and I married early, we bought our first apartment with limited budget, I still tried hard to make the most of it to fit my “perfection”.
The small balcony was filled with plants and flowers. It was my secret garden, I can sip my cup of coffee and watch my greens all morning.
Not just the balcony; my kitchen was equipped with aesthetic and functional silverware and pots; I knocked down the tiles provided by the construction company, just to choose my own tiles, not to mention what I went through to find the right fabric and color for those hand towels.
Thus, I can not accept the fact that I was going to spend the rest of my life in a wheel-chair.
There was no more perfection.
The first year was the darkest time in my life. It felt like decades. No matter how hard I tried to squirm out of the whirlpool of darkness, the more I struggled, the more I was sucked into it. I was drowning.
There’s so much than what you see “a person in a wheelchair” who’s paralyzed. You don’t have bladder control, you suffer dysautonomia which simply means you have pains and cramps sending to your system by your damaged nerves. There are also issues like obesity, osteoporosis, and kidney, heart and lungs problems.
My stubborn tumor cuts me from T8-9, meaning from about 3 cm above my belly button until my waist down, I don’t feel a thing, and I can’t budge a toe. All of a sudden, from 167 cm tall, I became 125cm. With that height, I can’t see the faces of people, I can’t smell the fresh air, and no more scenic views for me.
Due to the PTSD, I started to lose weight, but with no balance and muscle to straighten my back, my tummy always stuck out. I looked like a shrimp that has a 6 months belly in a wheel chair. I had to throw out all my tight and pretty clothes in change of clothes that could cover up the bulging tummy, and easy to put on pants with elastic waists. My beloved shoes had to go too, my feet are easily swollen, I need bigger shoes.
My choice of clothing and trend was banished.
The nerve pains follow me EVERY SINGLE DAY, 24-7. The medications can only do so much. Isn’t it an irony? I can’t feel my son’s hands touching my legs. Or someone just come and pinch me, let me get some real pain here. Nope, they are all gone. Dealing with the pains of my body takes up most of my energy everyday.
I had to record everything that I take in and out too. I had to decide to rely on adult diapers or to use catheter. My pride and frustration was about to explode. It took one year with the help of my doctor to understand my body and find the way that I was most comfortable with.
My legs are paralyzed, and my weight kept on dropping. Physically and mentally I was a mess.
I could never get to my balcony anymore; my pretty tiles had handles on them; my velvet dresser chair became an obstacle for my wheel chair, so it had to go.
My porcelain tea cups were too high for me to reach. I can no more decorate my table exactly the way I want to.
These were nothing compared to how I had to pretend everything was alright with in front of Andrew. He was two, and he was just ecstatic mommy wasn’t leaving him every two to three months. I played and laughed with him everyday, until he sleeps.
But it was a pretty pass.
I have witnessed him tumbling down the stairs in a friend’s house. I was right there! There was nothing I could do except to bite my lips from screaming out loud. Hundreds of things that could have happened to him, and my SOPs zoomed through my mind in the flick of seconds. Samuel ran over to pick up our frightened baby, Andrew held out his arms to me. I held him tight, checked him from head to toe. I thank the Almighty that he was not hurt.
Sometimes, I sat on my recliner instead of the wheel chair. Andrew wanted me to follow him to his room and play. I took a piece of my heart and threw it to him, he catches it, pats his own heart. “Mommy is following you now.” My two-year-old walks always without any complaints.
I tried to be the super-mom that I wanted to be, I took Andrew downstairs to play by myself. When I tried to catch a balloon that flew away, I fell head over heals. Andrew was in so much fright that he refused to go anyway alone with me for the longest time.
I suck everything up in the morning, my tears, my frustration, my sorrows. Once Andrew falls asleep, the waterworks ran like tap water, it wouldn’t stop. No one can comfort me, no one could help me, not even Samuel. We have been fighting this battle for years side by side, we were not ready to face the defeat.
I wasn’t ready to talk to anyone about this. I can’t lose my sanity in front of Andrew. He deserves a better mommy and a lot more happiness.
My blue print for being a Mother was to be there for my kid: race in the park, lie on the grass and gaze at the sky, teach him how to swim. When it’s time for school, I want to be friends of his friends, I am going to run for the coolest mom in the whole class.
But now, life isn’t pretty any more.
All good that’s left, was Andrew.
ptsd means 在 Dr 文科生 Facebook 的最佳解答
睇睇睇睇睇哂佢!!!
是咁的法網肥人
見到 文科生習醫的奇幻旅程 同 顥魄砌機 To.Moon DIY 講起網上有人提議太子站恐襲傷者應該向黨鐵同警察展開人身傷亡訴訟。肥人我有做開人身傷亡訴訟,可以簡述一下正常來講一個傷者如何展開人身傷亡訴訟,但係我都會話俾大家知一D好掃興既現實。
本文太長,可能要分一兩日出,免得你地睇到想死。
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首先,我想講下今日東方日報報導一個前法庭書記好高調咁「報稱太子站警打人致情緒困擾」,於是佢向警務署長索償。
肥人想話俾大家聽,如果你唔識做人身傷亡索償 (Personal Injury Action“PI”),千祈咪亂做,否則你會搞到單野唔三唔四,第二個接手會做到媽媽聲。如果你玩爛左單案,甚至俾人 strike out (踢走),你變相 discourage 好多後來真正有事想 claim 既受害人。玩還玩,法律唔係討論區你一言我一語咁吹完無後果的。有時用纏擾性訴訟可能令對方投降,但有時你會搞爛整件事。
講返新聞內文,有幾個要點肥人我必須要解釋一下。
(1) 呢位前法庭書記報稱在電視直播中看見警方執法畫面,感到恐懼,情緒受困擾,更害怕搭地鐵;
(2) 疑患上「創傷後壓力症候群」(Post-traumatic Stress Disorder “PTSD”);
(3) 入稟小額錢債審裁處,向「一哥」申索5000港元賠償;
(4) 認為9月1日警方以警棍毆打地鐵上沒有構成威脅的乘客,無視《警察通例》中使用「最低程度武力」指引,不合比例的尺度超出「朱經緯案」,因而向警務處處長申索。
報導話呢位前法庭書記係想用小額錢債 (Small Claim Tribunal) 做 PI。PI 係 tort claim (侵權法申索),係需要爭拗誰是誰非,邊個有 duty,邊個 breach 左個 duty,邊個 negligent,唔可以三兩句就完事。用 small claim 做 PI,就好似用牛油刀鋸智能燈柱一樣。而 small claim 呢,就主要係做「任何就合約、準合約或侵權行為而提出的金錢申索,而申索款額不超過$75,000者…」(參考香港法例第338章《小額錢債審裁處條例》附表-審裁處的司法管轄權),基本上係 D 細藝野。
如果你認真想 claim 對方,請正正經經搵律師循正常途徑做,OK? 但文中呢位前法庭書記話自己因為9月1日太子黨鐵站既恐襲而有 PTSD,所以去 claim 5000蚊。咁問題係邊?
如果俾你 claim到,係咪叫以後真係有 PTSD 既傷者只可以最高 claim 5000? 你set 一個咁既先例,幫政府節省開支?好啦,如果審裁處覺得你個 claim frivolous and vexatious,踢返你個 claim 走,然後東方又大肆報導,咁你係咪想 discourage 一班真正有需要而又好徬徨既受害人?唔好玩啦。This is not funny.
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好啦,講返上面四點。
第一點呢位仁兄話係電視直播中見到警方執法畫面而感到恐懼,情緒受困擾,更害怕搭地鐵。肥人我講返原告人個 standing先。呢位仁兄係歸入 psychiatric illness – secondary victims, bystander之內。係 McLoughlin v. O’Brian [1983] 1 AC 410 一案之中,原告人McLoughlin 太太獲知自己丈夫同三個子女遇到意外,原告人趕到醫院,親眼見到自己一個細路死左,丈夫同另外兩個細路滿身泥濘重傷,佢即時精神崩潰。後來原告人向 O'Brian 提出索償,以彌補自己精神上既創傷。案件上到英國 House of Lords,McLoughlin 太太最後勝訴,法官Lord Wilberforce 係判詞裡面指出呢類精神傷害 claim,原告人必須,係必須,符合以下三點:
1. The proximity of such persons to the accident;
2. The means by which the shock is caused; and
3. Closeness of ties with the person or persons imperiled.
即係 (1)原告人必須要與事件在時間與位置上都要非常接近;(2)原告人必須親眼見到即時慘狀;及(3)原告人必須與受害人有親密關係。McLoughlin 太太呢個 case,佢係接獲通知飛奔去醫院親眼見到自己先生同子女既慘狀,然後受到好大精神打擊。呢位前法庭書記呢?
第二點,呢位前法庭書記懷疑自己患上PTSD。現實上,凡係人身傷亡申索包括呢類 secondary victims 既 psychiatric illness claim,原告人係必須要有香港註冊專科醫生證明你有呢個健康問題,然後得到法庭批准,先可以拎份報告呈堂。你話自己有病而無證明?算吧啦。
第三點,雖然 Small Claim 有 jurisdiction 去審 tort claim,但現實中無人會用small claim 來做PI,一來 small claim 唔可以用律師,你叫 layman 點自己做?二來 small claim 銀碼唔大,如果你真係好傷,你點會 claim 幾萬咁少?你玩野壓低條 claim 以為可以玩政府,你其實開條路俾被告壓價!你叫以後上來既受害人點?
最後一點,呢位仁兄個 cause of action 真係…. 大家睇返 McLoughlin case,唔使睇 pleadings 都應該知道 McLoughlin 太太個 cause of action 應該係導致意外發生既人疏忽,令McLoughlin太太失去至親,佢目睹慘狀而精神崩潰。呢位前法庭書記呢?另外,我都講過《警察通例》係好似運輸署既 Road Users’ Code 一樣,無法律效力。我地做一般交通意外索償,起碼都要被告人被控不小心駕駛或者危險駕駛啦!被告無 conviction,你叫佢點會 admit liability? 佢死人都同你糾纏呀!尤其是你依家對住政府,佢地大把 resources 同你玩呀!
我好語重心長咁講,有陣時你玩膠無傷大雅,有時你玩膠會害到其他人。我地係參與緊翻天覆地既全民抗爭,有一D位唔可以好東張西望100毛咁「香港人輕鬆下啦」!呢場仗輸左,受害人好可能連醫藥賠償都得唔到呀!如果最後政府贏左無警察被刑事檢控,抗爭者不單止走佬都唔掂,受傷既無辜平民連醫藥費都無著落,一心玩野既人,請高抬貴手啦!
* 下一篇講如何開展PI
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* 再講一講 psychiatric illness claim。上面提到 secondary victim,咁有無 primary victim 呀?有!睇返一個經典英國案例 Dulieu v White [1901] 2 KB 669,案中原告人係一位孕婦,有一日佢係老公開果間 bar 裡面,有架馬車撞入佢老公間 bar,佢嚇到有 psychiatric shock 然後早產,胎兒亦有早產後遺症,雖然佢無實質身體傷害,法庭都判佢贏,因為佢係兜口兜面咁遇到意外,雖然佢身體無受傷但嚇到早產嘛!咁你地知道咩人可以 claim psychiatric illness as a primary victim啦!
#做人要識分輕重
#你係嚴肅對抗極權唔係笑聲救地球
#第一篇完
ptsd means 在 Daphne Iking Youtube 的最佳解答
I share my story about mental illness with Dr Farihah of HDOK , Sandakan.
I think first of all, I would like to clarify what STIGMA and DISCRIMINATION means because sometimes the two are confused with each other.
STIGMA - someone sees you in a negative way because of your mental illness
DISCRIMINATION - someone treats you in a negative way because of your mental illness
So STIGMA happens when a person defines someone by their illness rather than WHO they are as an individual. For example, they might be labelled “psychotic” rather than “a person experiencing psychosis”.
Second is to understand what is a mental illness
There are many different conditions that are recognised as mental illnesses. The more common types are:
Anxiety disorders
Mood disorders (eg Bipolar)
Psychotic disorders - hallucinations, delusions , schizophrenia
Eating disorders - Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, Binge eating
Impulse Control & Addiction disorders (kleptomaniac, pyromania, compulsive gambling)
Personality disorders
OCS
PTSD
Seven Things You Can Do to Reduce Stigma
* Know the facts. Educate yourself about mental illness including substance use disorders.
* Be aware of your attitudes and behaviour. Examine your own judgmental thinking, reinforced by upbringing and society.
* Choose your words carefully. The way we speak can affect the attitudes of others.
* Educate others. Pass on facts and positive attitudes; challenge myths and stereotypes.
* Focus on the positive. Mental illness, including addictions, are only part of anyone's larger picture.
* Support people. Treat everyone with dignity and respect; offer support and encouragement.
* Include everyone. It's against the law to deny jobs or services to anyone with these health issues.
ptsd means 在 暗網仔 2.0 Youtube 的最讚貼文
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我最高觀看次數的影片 (我為何不再拍暗網? 只說一次): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbihKaqEEQw&t=127s
曼德拉效應: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMutzRIE_uE&list=PLglqLngY6gv5BCwaoP-q6DOwUmw1lIusF&index=17&t=5s
我的100K成長故事: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kdhtp6A6YJE
破解Kate yup事件是假的! 不是綁架! 不要被騙! (Facebook上的證據): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NJVt56ORWo&t=2s
日本最殘酷的直播節目: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E81OKVX7wc
網上最可怕的一個字 (Ft. HenHen TV): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLedkSHc7Os&t=145s
The verge article:
https://www.theverge.com/2019/2/25/18229714/cognizant-facebook-content-moderator-interviews-trauma-working-conditions-arizona
深入Facebook員工崩潰的恐怖真相
我看過一條 2013年 ‘蘋果’ 動新聞説 每日運送到堆填區的廢膠以噸計, 政府卻不扶助產業發展導致 “廢膠迫爆堆填區” 的標題. 其實2020年全球最大的堆填區是社交媒體.
像Facebook每日上載超過3.5億張照片, Youtube每日上載超過四十三萬小時的影片內容.
可想像到這個人類 ‘推填區’ 有幾多個 ‘膠’ 啦.
大家好又是我暗網仔, 今日我們第一集的 ‘你不知道的事’ 系列會分享一些普遍你不會知道, 但應該要知道的事.
上年sundance電影節出了一部名 ‘The cleaners’ 的德國記錄片講述content moderator (內容管制員) 的工作. 全天候8至10小時, Content moderator就是坐在電腦前幫一些像Facebook的平台, 是否適宜在該網站出現?
片中拍攝地點位於菲律賓馬尼拉的office. 一個個隔間著moderator在按 ‘ignore’ it means the post remains on the website和’delete’ which means the post is taken down.
合同工的moderator也希望有一日能成為該平台的正式員工. 甚至到美國工作, 但大部分也是outsource公司聘請回來的.
2017年67%的美國人口日常使用Facebook, 到2019年下降到61%的美國人口會使用Facebook. 但實質Facebook總用戶數目是有所增加的.
Facebook近年市場發展由第一世界國家擴散到剛有網絡的第三世界國家. (Show burma civil war) 一個任何人也能分享自己的地方, 其實可以看到什麼呢?
恐怖分子的血腥影片, 自殘片段, 兒童色情, 虐待動物, “ignore” “delete” 是content moderator貧貧接觸的.
2019年6月美國媒體網絡The Verge在Youtube上載了一條 ‘inside the traumatic life of a Facebook moderator’ 得到主流媒體的關注.
“The video depicts a man being Murdered. Someone is stabbing him dozens of times, while he screams and begs for his life. Chloe feels an overpowering urge to sob. She leaves the room and begins to cry so hard she has trouble breathing. No one comforts her. This is the job she was hired to do.”
目前Facebook有意將gim視影片的工作交給AI去做. 但準確性會否能和真人一樣呢? 社交媒體需要乾淨的平台讓用戶能花最長不間斷時間在該網站上. 要低成本達到這個目的需要不同國家找lim ga勞工然後迫使他們24小時不停 “ignore” “delete” 的開工.
網上資訊揭發了一些Facebook 一些恐怖的真相. I want to start by saying a disclaimer: the points from this point forward are allegations from various individuals and not empirical facts. Additional information are quotes taken from mainstream new sources.
根據Phoenix arizona州科技公司一些ex員工表示: moderator每天正常有15分鐘休息時間, 30 分鐘午飯時間, 9分鐘 “wellness time”
工作環境非常惡劣. 一間800人的公司只有一個洗手間. 可能因為工作上要看的東西的性質, 常常會有員工在後樓梯用大麻和喝酒. 性慾按耐不住在停車場性交. 上司性騷擾下sook. 而我本人的角度: 這麼一個地方跟地獄沒分別.
Over the last few weeks, we’ve seen people hurting themselves and others on Facebook— if we’re going to build a safe community, we need to respond quickly.
The cleaner記錄片的尾段講Facebook近期社會上得到的各個爭議. 但content moderator現在真正成為熱點的原因可能是緬甸現在的政治事件. New York Times指出現在該地方的內戰是軍方利用facebook去加強的. And so many people were fooled into the war.
為facebook講的是: 樹大招風. A total of 2.8 billion people use facebook. I remember when I was kid my favorite movie was the social network that talked about Mark zuckerberg creating Facebook. The initial reason he did that was because the prestigious Phoenix club at Harvard didn’t accept him. He hated them. So he made his own club, facebook. That was exclusive to him and the people he deemed fit. And I guess in some way today, facebook has now become the Phoenix club he once hated. Only now he is on top, and facebook is the most non exclusive, exclusive club in the world.
The end
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