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Anak berusia 1.5 tahun ke 2.5 tahun akan mula memberontak, buang barang, merajuk dan protest. Jika anak anda berkelakuan demikian, bukan bermaksud dia sudah menjadi degil atau kurang ajar. Anak sekecil ini, tidak akan kurang ajar. Dia sedang belajar untuk ekspres diri dia disebabkan dia berasa letih atau kecewa akan sesuatu.
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2.5-year-old child will start rebelling, throwing away, sulking and protesting. If your child is acting like that, it doesn't mean he / she's being stubborn or rude. This little kid, won't be rude. She's learning to express herself because she's feeling tired or disappointed in something.
Therefore the way to help him become calm:
1-Hold her as in this picture.
2-Whisper that you love him and understand his feelings.
3-Read the Quran verse and A ' uzubillah hi minasyaitan nir rajim, so that the devil does not take advantage of him and you.
4-Calm her with words of love and you need to calm down
5-NEVER GET ANGRY AND SCREAM OR HIT HIM UP TO DISCIPLINE HIM. This will only make him a coward or rebellious child.
* Recognize What Is Tantrum?
Tantrums mean to be outrageous. When ′′ Temper Tantrum ′′ is an outpouring of emotion that explodes so that there is no self-control. Temper Tantrums often appear in children aged 15 months-6 years. Tantrums usually occur in hyper-active children. Tantrum is also easier for children who are considered ′′ difficult ", with the following features:
1) Children don't sleep enough.
2) Irregular unclean removal process and process.
3) Awkward with a new situation or someone he doesn't know.
4) Slowly adapt to change.
5) Emotions are not peaceful (often negative).
6) Easy to get angry and easy to cry.
7) Hard to move his attention.
Tantrum is manifested in various behaviors. Here are some examples of Tantrum behavior, age-ranked:
Under 3 years old
· Crying
· Bite
· Hitting
· Kickin
· Screaming
· Scratching up
· Getting the body to the floor
· Hitting his hand
· Holding my breath
· Stomping the head
· Throwing stuff
· Rise
· Hugging her body
3-4 years old
· The behavior is above
· Stomping legs
· Screaming
· Punching
· slamming the door
· Criticizing
· whining
5 years old and above
· Those behaviors are above
· Scolding others @ his parents
· Swearing
· Hitting sister @ sister @ her friends
· Criticize yourself
· Breaking things on purpose
· Threatens
· complaining
· Trauma @ phobia of something that suppresses the child's emotions.
* FACTOR OF TANTRUM CAUSE
There are several factors that caused the Tantrum. Some of them are like the following:
1) Will @ Wanting for Children's Desire is Resisted
After unsuccessful asking for something that remains to his wish, then the child is easy to release his tantrum emotion that aims to urge his parents to fulfill his dream.
2) Child inability to express with words
Children under the age of 4 have language limitations. It's very difficult for them to translate their wishes in a form of language that we can understand. Therefore, the condition of those who still don't feel at ease has suppressed their emotions become disappointed and indirectly create frustration on themselves and delivered with tantrum attitude.
3) Limited Movement
Hyper-active children are common with free movements with no scouts or limitations. If parents try to control their movement or limit their behavior to be polite and complicated, then this will create stress on their own child. For children to release stress, then there is a tantrum. For example; child wants to drink glass, mother or nanny is not allowed and replace with plastic cup; child still insists on his desire, so there is an anger in him and for him to let him go he will be a tantrum so that his will
Allowed.
4) Parent s' care
a. Too pampered when all wishes are filled and suddenly there's another desire not to follow.
b. Inconsistent care - not explaining which is good and which is bad (no explanation given). When the child makes mistakes and suddenly we rebuke and punish, then this is the complication that comes up with the form of tantrums.
c. Parents argue with opinions which are good @ bad for children.
5) Children feel tired, hungry or sick.
6) The child is stressed
Whether the child is tired of the burden of school assignment, etc. or not to feel insecure.
7) Trauma @ Phobia
Child being tortured or seen something scary or raped since childhood. The trauma that hits him makes his emotions uncertain. Children expect safe protection. When that happens, he assumed that parents didn't give love or peace that was expected. Then he will tantrums to release the pressure that strikes his emotions. This tantrum takes time to recover and will be carried away until he grows up.
Hopefully it will be useful for us to handle the tantrums that may happen to our children. I've learned a lot from this article. Sharing is caring.
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