【玳瑚師父課室】《第二十七場餐會回顧 - 桃花舞春風》
27th LEARNING SESSION RECAP: PEACH BLOSSOM LUCK IN PERSONAL MAGNETIZATION (English version below)
玳瑚師父於2017年4月11日,舉辦了第二十七場餐會《桃花舞春風》,教導創業者如何盆滿鉢滿,領薪的朋友們如何能得到老闆的栽培,同事的擁戴否,以及其他人生的領域,都可以有所展獲。
一開始,玳瑚師父問一位出席者是否知道,哪三種行業不能做?
師父接著說,殺生業、娼妓業和賭業。
那位小姐所做的兼職生意,正是飲食業。師父說,舉凡殺害六道眾生生命的,都是殺生,從事這些行業,造業至深,不但會連累祖先,還會牽連自己和家人,及下一代。
師父敘述了殺生的因果後,善勸那位小姐,應當改行,及勤唸《往生咒》迴向給所殺過的畜靈。就算這些畜靈不是她親手殺,但也是爲她而死,因此仍脫離不了殺生的過失。
初次見面,這位小姐送了一束花給玳瑚師父爲見面禮。師父現場將花變化供養給佛菩薩,並解說我們供花的種種功德,和自身桃花運的關係。
餐會精彩回顧:
一、出席者說話方式,很僵硬。師父提醒她,當晚的主題是桃花,說話不要像機器人。
二、保護嗓音和我們的命運有何祕密關係?
三、沒有桃花,做什麼都很難。
四、一個人的桃花在哪裡?
五、飲食沒有根據自己的八字所需,所以:
- 老闆罵妳你,
- 股票虧錢,
- 客人投訴妳你,等等。
六、我們從事與我們八字對立的行業,祇會讓自己很辛苦。
七、不是所有的人是人來轉世,有些是動物來投胎。
八、師父慈悲提點出席者的先生,要注意的病變。
九、師父請所有的出席者說出,什麼是桃花?
何小姐:「桃花,是一種吸引力。」
李小姐:「桃花,是一種能吸引人的愛戴和支持的力量。」
廖小姐:「桃花,是讓人想親近你的力量。」
十、師父解說何爲桃花,並提到一個八字如果有這個五行偏多,說話會比較唐突。
十一、我們身體的哪一部份,是桃花的關鍵?
十二、女人化妝,對桃花有怎樣的幫助?
十三、行善對自身的桃花運,有怎樣的影響?
十四、雨點積多,可成大江大海,小石積多,便可成高山。因此,小善也要多做,因爲積少成多,便成大善。
十五、爲什麼有些人,一輩子都是僕人的命?
十六、師父提醒出席者們,要記得向服務生道謝。一句謝謝很重要,說了妳你也沒有少什麼。但不說,就顯示妳你的涵養、素養、教養和學養皆修不好。
十七、我們是人,不是動物,所以一定要有人應該有的禮儀。
十八、我們若沒意思,就不要隨隨便便讓別人喜歡上我們,這樣會帶痛苦給她他人,非善也。
十九、玳瑚師父注意到,現場唯有一位出席者勤寫筆記,便說:「我喜歡教大學生,因爲他們會思考,會寫筆記,祇是有時,知識過高,低估了玄學的厲害。」
廿、學歷高低也好,人窮志不能窮。
廿一、桃花也來自於好心情,師父推薦大家要多吃這三種食物,可以保持心情愉悅。
廿二、玳瑚師父現場,詳細分析出席者們的桃花樣,及依據她們的八字和面相,給於增強自身桃花的巧妙方法。
廿三、某位小姐的性格倔強,師父提醒她:我們要永遠精進不懈,而不是一味的固執己見,才能有更好的命運。
廿四、周杰倫PK王力宏,爲何是周杰倫比較紅?他如何能從前世帶來如此大的桃花?
廿五、我們如果入錯行,會遇到老闆從來都不欣賞我們,我們的身心都會受影響。
脾氣代表火,因此佛教有句話,火燒功德林。功德很難修,但毀掉卻不費吹灰之力。我們要常常檢討自己哪裡做的不足,然後就去改善。不要因爲有人批評,就生氣。這樣不是行大桃花運的辦法。
改善,是爲了明天能更好。不好的,該放就放,碎碎「怨」,猶如抱著一顆定時炸彈,隨時都在毀壞自己的運。
每一個人,都要多微笑,大力地綻放桃花出來。我們修行就是要斷執著,但妳你要求別人要對妳你好,要給妳你好,妳你要先問自己,妳你能不能也做得到?要不然,妳你不但會把貴人桃花都嚇跑,自己還會折了福而不自知。
餐會結束後,師父爲出席者簽書,加持其數珠,並教導她們使用數珠的正確方法。一切吉祥如意圓滿。
On 11th April 2017, Master Dai Hu held his 27th session with the theme "Peach Blossoms Dancing In The Wind - Strengthen Your Personal Magnetization", teaching entrepreneurs the ways to more profits, and salaried staff the methods to attracting supportive bosses and colleagues, as well as how to excel in over areas of life.
At the start of the session, Master Dai Hu asked the participants if they know the 3 occupations to avoid.
He then went to talk about the occupations of killing, prostitution and gambling.
Indeed, one lady participant has a side business in the food industry. Master said taking the lives of any living being in the six realms of existence is killing, sowing a seed of heavy negative karma. This sin will implicate your ancestors, bring harm to you and your family, as well as your descendants.
Master explained the karma of killing, and advised the participant to quit the food business, as well as chanting the Mantra for Rebirth to Pureland and dedicate its merits to all animals killed by her. Even if these animals were not killed by her personally, they died for her, so the wrongdoing of killing is still there.
This participant presented a bouquet of flower to Master as a first-time meeting gift. Master made an offering to the Buddha's and Bodhisattvas on the spot, explained to all the merits of flower offerings and how it can positively affect our Peach Blossom luck.
Learning Session Highlights:
1. One participant spoke in a very stiff manner. Master Dai Hu advised her not to speak like a robot, since the theme that day was on Peach Blossom Luck of Personal Magnetization.
2. Protecting our voice has an intricate link to our destiny.
3. It is hard to accomplish anything without Peach Blossom luck.
4. Where is one's Peach Blossom luck?
5. The wrong food consumption based on your Bazi will result in:
Frequent scoldings by your boss
Losses in the stock market
Complaints from customers, etc.
6. We will only suffer if we embark on a career that is against what our Bazi needs.
7. Not all humans are born in the human realm in their past lives. Some were animals in their previous lives.
8. Master Dai Hu, out of compassion, highlighted to a participant how her husband needed to watch out for changes in his health.
9. Master Dai Hu invited all participants to tell him, what did they think Peach Blossom Luck is?
Ms Ho : It is a form of attraction.
Miss Lee: It is the power that elicits support and love from other people.
Ms Liao : It is a power that makes others want to be closer to you.
10. Master Dai Hu explained the true meaning of Peach Blossom Luck, and mentioned that a person will speak in an abrupt manner if there's excessive of THIS element in the Bazi.
11. Which of our body feature plays the most important part in our Peach Blossom luck?
12. How can cosmetics help in your Peach Blossom luck?
13. How does doing kind deeds influence your Peach Blossom luck?
14. Drops of rain, when collected, will form the rivers and the seas. Small stones, when gathered, will form mountains. Therefore, small deeds of kindness can accumulate into a huge meritorious deed.
15. Why do some people become a servant or maid for life?
16. Master Dai Hu reminded the participants to thank the service staff. A word of thank-you is important. It does not cost a thing to you but not saying it shows that you lack manners, culture, etiquette and knowledge.
17. We are humans, not animals. Therefore we must behave with etiquette, that is becoming of a human.
18. We should not lead another person to fall in love with us, if we are not interested in him/her in the first place, as this will bring suffering to the other person. That is definitely not a virtuous act.
19. Master Dai Hu noticed that only one participant took notes, and said that he liked to teach people who were graduates because of their willingness to think and take notes. The only shortcoming, due to their high qualifications, is their tendency to underestimate the power of Metaphysics.
20. Regardless of your academic qualification and wealth status, never fall short on your aspirations.
21. You will enjoy Peach Blossom luck when you are in high spirits. Master Dai Hu recommended 3 types of food to maintain our happy state of mind.
22. Master Dai Hu did a live analysis of the Peach Blossom luck of each participant, according to their Bazi and facial features, and advised them the ways of strengthening it.
23. One lady participant has a stubborn character. Master Dai Hu advised her to quit her obstinate ways and strive towards a better destiny.
24. Jay Chou vs Wang Lee Hom. Why is Jay Chou more popular? How did he accumulate so much Peach Blossom Luck from his previous life?
25. When we are in the wrong career, we will be have unappreciative bosses and our well-being will be affected.
A fiery temper, as the name implies, has a fire element. Thus the common phrase in Buddhism: The fire destroys your forest of merits. It is extremely hard to cultivate merits but effortless to destroy them. We must always reflect on our lack, and do our best to rectify. Do not get angry and emotional if someone criticises you. This is not the way to enjoy great Peach Blossom luck.
To change for the better is to strive for a better tomorrow. Let go of all that is not beneficial for you. Constant grumbling and complaining is like hugging a time bomb. It will destroy your fortunes anytime.
Everyone should smile more, to exude more affability. The aim of our spiritual cultivation is to sever all attachments. If you want people to treat you well, ask yourself if you can do that to others in the first place. If not, you are just going to chase away your benefactors and destroy your own merits unknowingly.
At the end of session, Master Dai Hu fulfilled the wishes of the participants by autographing his book, blessing the chanting beads of a participant, and teaching them the proper usage of the beads. The session ended on an auspicious note.
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the time of one's life意思 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的精選貼文
《歡愛後的代價》
The Price of Unbridled Love (English version below)
年輕時,從來都沒有想過,感性與性感是什麼意思,尤其是感性這兩個字。後來經修行有了悟境,才「理智」的看待,感性與性感之間的不同處。感性者,是對一切的人情事故,很直接的反應。性感者,是對異性外在方面的直接反應。比方說,妳你觀看一部連續劇,妳你閱讀一本小說,妳你的朋友,響妳你傾訴她他的遭遇等等,妳你的淚水不由自主的落下,這就謂之於感性也。
吾,玳瑚師父,認爲感性較易處理,性感所衍生的問題,那就沒那麼容易處理了。感性的感在前,顯然的出錯在一個「感」字上。一個沒修行的凡夫俗子,自身的感覺,以及對方給於妳你的感覺,大多甚至幾乎全部,皆是錯覺也。而這些錯覺,亦是「不理智」的情況下所產生之。性感的性在前,顯然的跟「性」有連接的關係。性感這兩個字,往往也多用於稱讚女性如:她的打扮裝扮很性感,她的身材很性感⋯⋯。
吾,玳瑚師父,在此勸請先生女士小姐們,千萬別誤以爲穿小就是潮流,若妳你有此想法的話,可見妳你的想法有多落伍。告訴妳你哦!這世界是充滿了「色素」的啊!妳你再製造更多的「色素」的話,妳你遲早變成「KIMCHI」(泡菜)。什麼意思?污染也。污染自己也污染她他人,罪過也。感性是一種情志的表現。性感則是一種體態的表現,千萬勿搞錯才好。大多的男女,皆因這種「體態的表現」,而焚毀了原始原有的道德,當初共結連理的承諾,一失足成千古恨啊!
據吾所知,凡是犯邪淫的人,命終將轉投畜生道五百劫或更多,做狗、雞、豬、蟲類。待劫滿再轉投做下等人,如:苦力、僕人、卑女、終身不被尊敬的人,等等同樣五百劫或更多。就算劫滿轉投較好等級的人,妳你所說的話,也祇有較少人會聽。這樣的「來來回回」,真不知何世才能做個,真正有福氣的人啊!所以吾常告誡那些八字、面相、骨骼、名字、家居風水,有濃濃淫味的男男女女,一定要專一。要不然,將來妳你的名字,就真的要叫阿豬、阿雞或阿狗了。佛法有斷淫的法門,若妳你不想「披毛戴角」,玳瑚師父願意救渡妳你。
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In my younger days, I had never thought about the true meaning of these words: sentimentality and sexiness. It was only after I attained a certain level of awareness in my spiritual practice, I began to rationally look at the difference between sensibility and sexiness. Sentimentality in a person means that he or she has an acute sensitivity to the people and events in the surrounding. Sexiness refers to the awareness and reactions to people of the opposite gender. For example, if you experience deep emotions and tears easily when watching a drama serial, reading a book, or when a friend confides in you, you belong to the group of people with high sentimentality.
Master Dai Hu feels that it is easier to deal with sentimentality, compared to the problems that sexiness brings. Sentimentality deals with one's emotions and senses. And more often than not, the emotions of a mere mortal are illusory, the feelings that others give us are misperceptions. Such illusions and misperceptions are conceived from poor logic. On the other hand, sexiness leads us to the connotation of sex, and often associates with the female gender. For example: "She dresses so sexily" or "She has got a sexy figure. ", etc.
Master Dai Hu hereby reminds all ladies not to mistake being scantily dressed as the trend nowadays. You are old-fashioned if you think that way. Let me tell you, this world is already saturated with "colouring pigments". If you are going to create more "colours", it is a matter of time that you would become kimchi. Heavily tainted, that is! Tainting yourself is also tainting others, and this is a sin. Sentimentality is a show of emotions, while sexiness is a display of physical attributes. Don't get this wrong. Obsessed with the human display of physical attributes, many men and women had abandoned their innate morals and destroyed the marriage vows they made. How regretful!
To my knowledge, people who has committed sexual misconduct will suffer the fate of reincarnation in the animal realm for at least 500 lifetimes, taking the form of a dog, chicken, pig, worm, etc. After which they will return to the human realm and be reborn into a lower class, taking on roles such as a coolie, servant, maid, never gaining respect for the entire life, for at least 500 rebirths. Even if you have a better human reincarnation, your words will not command much respect or following. Such a tenuous game of never-ending rebirths, nobody knows when one can finally and truly enjoy good fortunes! This explains my endless reminders to those who has the high tendency for sexual indiscretions, to stay loyal and faithful in the relationship. Or else, your name will be Piggy, Chicky or Doggy for real. How can I tell? Through one's name, Bazi, facial features, bones structure, home Feng Shui, etc. The Dharma teaches the way to end your sexual desires. If you don't wish to wear fur or horns on your skin next lifetime, Master Dai Hu is willing to help you.
the time of one's life意思 在 MickRay 米克瑞 Facebook 的最讚貼文
渡邊直美是我的女神 😭😭😭
To all LGBT community 😇 #lovewins
Dare to be yourself
致给同性戀或LGBT做自已吧💜💛💚💙❤
1.
大家有個誤解或錯覺
認為對同性戀來說 他們只想做愛 不像異性戀談戀愛
事實是每個人都想愛人與被愛
There's this illusion that homosexuals have sex and heterosexuals fall in
love.
That's completely untrue. Everybody wants to be loved.
2.
標籤是用來分類文件 用來標示衣服品牌
但不是拿來將人分類
Labels are for filing. Labels are for clothing. Labels are not for people.
3.
不管你隱藏的很好 或已經告訴全世界
出不出櫃不是解決問題的全部
只是過程之一 面對不同環境的他人
或不同時空的自我狀態
如同其他生活課題
永遠都有下一步要去想 要去改變
“No matter how far in or out of the closet you are, you still have a next
step.”
4.
不需要為了展現真正的感覺來說道歉
當你真的將感受表達出來時
只需對其他人一時無法接受事實來說聲不好意思
Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for truth
5
作你自己 說你想說的
因為不需要去理會那些與自己不相關的人
而真正關心瞭解你的人則不會在意
“Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Don't Matter
and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.”
6.
同性戀是神的安排
要讓真正有才能的人
可以盡情發揮自我
而不要為養育小孩而操煩
Homosexuality is god's way of insuring that the truly gifted aren't burdened
with children.
7.
恐同症是一種社會病徵
Homophobia is a social disease
8.
愛是一把火
可以溫暖心窩
或燒掉房子
你無法預料
“Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down
your house, you can never tell.”
9.
我老覺得否定同性戀這件事 就跟講不同意老天下雨一樣沒有意義
It always seemed to me a bit pointless to disapprove of homosexuality. It's
like disapproving of rain.
10.
能夠知道什麼讓你快樂 就是一個再好不過的開始
It's a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.
11.
人生本來就比想像中還短暫 何必自尋苦惱
Is not life a hundred times too short for us to stifle ourselves?
12.
我一直好奇我的性取向是什麼 不過我卻沒有想過別人接不接受的問題
唉 反正又有誰會在乎我是同性戀或異性戀呢
I've wondered what my sexuality might be, but I've never wondered whether it
was acceptable or not.
Anyway, who really cares whether I'm gay or straight?"
13.
如果造物主想把我造成另一種合適的模樣 他應該一開始就已經那麼做了
If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise.
14.
愛是一件美好的事 性也是一件美好的事 實在不知道大家爭論問題所在
Love is a beautiful thing, sex is a beautiful thing, so what's the problem?
15.
老天爺給你一張臉 但你要給自己另造一張
God has given you one face and you make yourselves another.
16.
只要社會是持續反同志的 那麼同志也不得不反社會了
As long as society is anti-gay, then it will seem like being gay is
anti-social.
17.
如果同性戀是病的話 那我們就打電話請同性戀病假吧 "嗨 沒法去上班 目前還是同性戀
"
If homosexuality is a disease, let's all call in queer to work: "Hello. Can't
work today, still queer."
Robin Tyler
18.
什麼是直的 一條線或一條街道可以說是直的 但是人心可不行吧 起起伏伏就像蜿蜒的山
路一樣多變
What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart,
oh, no, it's curved like a road through mountains.
19.
我們數說同性戀的不是 應等同看待左撇子一樣
One should no more deplore homosexuality than left-handedness.
20.
神是我的守護者 而他清楚知道我是同志
The Lord is my Shepherd and he knows I'm gay.
21.
雙性戀瞬間讓週末夜的約會機率加倍
Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.
22.
永遠不要對霸凌欺壓保持沉默姑息 永遠不要讓自己甘於成為受害者 不需接受任何人對你
所下的定語 只有自己可以成就自己
Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.
23.
誰能對愛來加諸法規 反過來說 愛本質上就是一種高於規範的主宰
Who would give a law to lovers? Love is unto itself a higher law.
24.
恐同症本身就有夠"同性戀"的
Homophobia is so gay.
25.
衣櫃是拿來放衣服 不是拿來關人的
Closet is for clothes, not people
26.
我個人認為同性伴侶們應該擁有結婚的權利
I Think Same-Sex Couples Should Be Able to Get Married
27.
同志的權利即是人權
Gay rights are human rights
28.
時機已到來 我們的歷史正在發生變化
The Time Has Come, a historic shift is underway.
Is ok to be LGBT,don't feel shame on yourself fk those haters, nothing wrong with LGBT 💜💛💚💙❤