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👋The Surprising Science Behind Friendship
友誼背後出人意料的科學
👏At its simplest, it’s just how critical quality social bonds and friendships are. In animals, the big measures that evolutionary biologists study are reproductive success, which they count as either how many babies you have or how long those babies live, and longevity, or how long you survive. Nonhuman primates have very structured hierarchies that they exist in, and everyone assumed that that must have more importance for how long you live and how many babies you have and how healthy they are. And it wasn’t. The most important thing was the strength of the social bonds, how positively and well and regularly an individual animal interacted with other animals. Scientists really couldn’t believe it.
簡單來說,有品質的社會關係以及友誼非常重要。在動物界,演化科學家研究的主要指標包括繁殖成功率,即某隻動物的後代數量或幼獸存活時間;以及壽命,即動物自身的生存時間。非人類靈長類動物在森嚴的等級制度內生存,人們以為這種等級制度對動物的壽命長短、幼獸數量以及健康狀況影響更為重大。然而,事實並非如此,社會連結的強度,以及個體與族群中其他成員積極、良好及有規律的互動才是影響個體生存最重要的因素。科學家對這一發現感到十分震驚。
-longevity: 壽命
-hierarchy: 階級
-assume: 假設
💪Friendship literally improves your body’s cardiovascular functioning, how your immune system works, how you sleep. You can imagine the food you put in your body makes you healthy or not. But sitting in a coffee shop with someone and just chatting about what’s going on with your life, we always thought emotionally that made you feel good. But actually it really is doing much more.
就像攝入的食物決定我們是否身體健康一樣,友誼能改善我們的心血管功能、增強免疫力、提高睡眠質量。與好友相約,喝喝咖啡、聊聊自己的近況,我們總認為這些活動僅能起到放鬆心情的作用。但實際上,其作用遠不止於此。
-cardiovascular: 心血管相關的(cardio:心臟的)
-put in: 放置;放入(在文章脈絡中是攝取的意思)
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🎤There’s this interesting chemistry to friendship. Just like in romance, you are more drawn to some people than you are others. Some of it is very straightforward: You are interested in the same things, you spend time in the same place. That’s one reason why we are close to relatives, because you have a head start, you spend more time with them than you do anyone else. We do tend to be better friends with people who are more like us.
朋友間也存在有趣的化學反應。與兩情相悅類似,我們會被具有某些特質的人吸引。還有些原因非常直接:同樣的興趣愛好;經常在同一地點碰面。這也解釋了為什麼親人之間往往關係更為緊密,因為你們從小在一起,你和他們相處的時間甚於其他任何人。我們也確實傾向於和與自己相似的人交朋友。
-draw to: 受…吸引
-straightforward: 直截了當;直接的
-head start: 領先;佔得的先機、優勢
未完待續...
要跟對方聊多久才會變成好朋友?
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The reason behind people being attracted to one and not the other is _________: you are interested in the same things, you spend time in the same space. We often ______ being around with friends does us good emotionally, but it’s actually doing so much more.
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A. straightforward / assume
B. direct / assumes
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1968年布拉格之春的主要主題曲,竟然是Beatles的《Hey Jude》,因歌手Marta Kubisova翻唱而響徹了整個國家。捷克版的改編不再圍繞父親在離婚後的叮嚀,歌詞變得更貼近那個時代的語境:
//Hey Jude,甚麼弄哭了你?
紅着眼又淚盈眶?
除了這份最後的小禮物,便一無所有
你識得幾首歌,它們會伴你度過
Hey Jude,他愛着你。
用歌唱出來會容易一些。
在所有曲終韻結之處,
那裡有一個我們遺下的影子。
這個世界美麗,這個世界邪惡。
Hey Jude,請相信他。
天賦讓他有更多的傷痕,
在傷口上灑鹽,又折斷其撐杆,
世界就這樣統治我們。
這樣滾壓我們。
不不不不不不不不不!
Hey Jude,這是你的歌。
當我唱時,你擘大眼,
而你安靜謙卑地輕哼着,
然後整個場廳都只屬你一個。
所以你來這裡,讓我去那裡。
Hey Jude,我得到
你的門票,去那我只見到少少的地方。
我僅僅只能聆聽和隱藏羞愧,
Hey Jude,神才知道,為何你唱得更好,
而我並不妒忌。
Hey Jude,你知道,
我雙眼通紅,也許是有東西入了去。
這就是它在你口中動聽的原因,
因為你唱盡了整個世界的苦難。//
同年,搖滾樂隊宇宙塑料人誕生了,它亦是未來捷克總統哈維爾最喜歡的一隊Band,他的《七七憲章》的靈感也是源自他們的歌,「活在真實裡」的概念便是出自主音的其中一篇文章。時間來到1976年,或許是秘密警察發現樂隊成員密見哈維爾等知識分子,加上樂隊的創作愈來愈放肆,蘇共開始大清算捷克樂壇,廿多個成員齊齊被捕。
另一個被捕原因,是這年他們發表了一張很特別的專輯《Ach To Státu Hanobení》,意思是「那個誹謗的國度」。當中有一首歌叫《100 Bodů》,用整整20分鐘反覆唱着同一範句諷刺蘇共當局,來鋪陳出最後那著名的一句:咁點解我哋要驚佢哋?
歌詞:
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They fear the old because of their memory
They fear the young because of their innocence
They even fear schoolchildren
They fear the dead and their funerals
They fear the graves and flowers which people put on those graves
They fear the church, priests and nuns
They fear the workers
They fear the Party members
They fear the non – party members
They fear science
They fear art
They fear poems and books
They fear theatre plays and movies
They fear records and cassettes
They fear writers and poets
They fear journalists
They fear actors and sculptors
They fear painters and singers
They fear radio stations
They fear television satellites
They fear the free flow of information
They fear foreign literature and newspapers
They fear the scientific progress
They fear Xerox prints
They fear typewriters
They fear letters
They fear telephones
They fear letting people out (of the country)
They fear letting people in
They fear the left wing
They fear the right wing
They fear the departure of Soviet troops
They fear the changes in Moscow
They fear disarmament
They fear the contracts they signed
They fear their own signatures
They fear their own police
They fear the cops
They fear because of the cops
They fear chess players
They fear tennis players
They fear hockey players
They fear gymnasts
They fear saint Václav
They fear Jan Hus
They fear all the saints
They fear the snacks/gifts from saint Mikuláš (he's like eastern Santa Claus)
They fear the baby Jesus
They fear statues with backpacks on their backs
They fear archives
They fear historians
They fear economists
They fear sociologists
They fear philosophers
They fear physicists
They fear doctors
They fear political prisoners
They fear the families of political prisoners
They fear todays evening
They fear tomorrows morning
They fear today and everyday
They fear the future
They fear the past
They fear heart attacks and cirrhosis
They even fear the slight trace of conscience which maybe remained in them
They fear the streets
They fear their own castle ghettos
They fear their own families
They fear their own relatives
They fear their former friends and comrades
They fear their current friends and comrades
They fear each other
They fear the things they said
They fear the things they wrote
They fear they will lose their status
They fear both water and fire
They fear both wet and dry
They fear the snow
They fear the wind
They fear both freeze and heat
They fear noise and silence
They fear the light and the dark
They fear both joy and sadness
They fear jokes
They fear fairness
They fear honesty
They fear the educated
They fear the talented
They fear Marx
They fear Lenin
They fear all of our dead presidents
They fear the truth
They fear the freedom
They fear democracy
They fear The declaration of human rights
They fear socialism
SO WHY ARE WE AFRAID OF THEM?
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他們害怕老因為他們的記憶,他們害怕年輕因為他們的天真,他們害怕死屍和他們的葬禮,他們害怕墓碑和放在墓上的鮮花;他們害怕教堂,害怕工人,害怕黨員,害怕非黨員,害怕科學,害怕藝術,害怕詩書,害怕戲劇……害怕自己的警察,害怕因為警察,害怕街頭,害怕政治犯,害怕政治犯的家人,害怕笑話,害怕公正,害怕誠實,害怕馬克思,害怕真相,害怕自由,害怕民主,害怕人權宣言,害怕社會主義……這不就是中共的寫照嗎?
搖滾精神之死,全因歌手們已不再唱得出這種的歌,他們在錄音室對極權歌功頌德,因為他們害怕。SO WHY ARE WE AFRAID OF THEM? 以前的人比較有骨氣,還是現在的自由比以前還要少?
往後的日子,請不要停止歌唱。讓信仰在歌中飄揚。
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relatives意思 在 賓狗單字 Bingo Bilingual Facebook 的最佳解答
每到過年,你總是被親戚逼到無法喘息嗎?今年,賓狗從三十六計中精選了 5 個計策,讓你過春節不再痛苦。
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set fire 隔岸觀火
「我的薪水沒漲耶,但你少了十八趴,一年只能出國玩五次了吼?」
一般來說,跟不同世代的親戚聊政治,簡直是自尋死路,但非常時期需要非常手段。若被問到讓你理智斷線的問題時,不妨隨意聊個政治相關的話題,然後看整個客廳陷入火海。
尤其這次過年適逢大選剛結束,可說是最適合賞火的時節。
You can set the fire, and watch the world burn.
(你可以灑下星星之火,欣賞野火燎原。)
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retreat 走為上策
「不好意思,先去個廁所。」
再白目的親戚,都不會攔住屎意堅決的人。只要鎖上廁所門,這裡就是你的秘密花園了。
最後記得,「大魚大肉」是便秘的好理由。當親戚產生疑心時,別忘了這四字箴言。
You can retreat and refresh yourself in the bathroom.
(你可以撤退到廁所去恢復一下精神。)
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escape 金蟬脫殼
「缺飲料?我去買!」
外送 app 雖然方便,但主動提議去買東西,不但聽起來很二十四孝,還是難得的脫身理由。最好主動介紹附近熱門的飲料店,就能以大排長龍為由,理所當然消失好一段時間。
當然,你可沒有保證買完就立刻回去。回程時先去超商滑滑手機,是你額外的工作福利。
You can escape from relatives by offering to run errands.
(你可以自願去跑腿,藉此逃離親戚。)
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play dumb 假癡不癲
「交女朋友了沒?」「我在等韓冰加我好友。」
我們會覺得親戚的提問很惱人,是因為我們太習慣認真回答問題。伸手不打笑臉人,就算你的回答再白目,只要你的笑臉夠痴憨,親戚通常都會不忍心追問下去。
You can play dumb to avoid personal questions.
(你可以用裝傻來迴避敏感問題。)
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smile like a Cheshire cat 笑裡藏刀
你今天關心長輩了嗎?何必只是被動等著長輩來關心你呢?
「孩子的成績如何?為什麼沒有前三名?」、「姨丈升遷了嗎?」、「阿姨退休之後有事做嗎?」、「中國國籍申請得如何?」、「王小姐最近還好嗎?」、「姑丈~BMI 超過 35 母湯耶」
今年就來過一個互相關懷的暖心春節吧!(手比愛心)
You can bombard your relatives with questions, smiling like a Cheshire cat.
(你可以笑裏藏刀、反守為攻,用問題轟炸親戚。)
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空手上陣、束手無策。趕快把這篇貼文存起來,覺得喘不過氣的時候,就把賓狗的錦囊妙計打開來複習!
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relatives意思 在 頴珊頻道 | The Wingshantsui Channel Youtube 的最佳貼文
The 18 generations of Chinese ancestors. Complicated family tree.
We've got a special name for all family members...but sometimes we don't even remember who's who beyond our different kinds of cousins. Well, I came up with a way to help us remember. Maybe if I manage to get it stuck in your head, you can finally call your older relatives by the correct name.
祖宗十八代
曲詞:wing shan tsui
祖宗十八代
各有各精彩
祖宗十八代
我要分得開
唐人關係零缷多
近親遠戚一大籮
姨媽姑姐表姨婆
咁多稱呼咪嗌錯
生我個個叫呀媽
另外一半叫呀爸
呀媽個邊都係表
呀爸一半用堂來叫
呀爺係老豆既爸爸
老豆呀媽我叫嫲嫲
佢地所有兄弟姊妹
我會向你一一介紹
呀爺呀哥係我伯爺
呀爺細佬係我叔公
佢D姊妹係我姑婆
呢D關係唔算好難jeh~
嫲嫲個邊就有D唔同
佢D兄弟我叫舅公
佢既姊妹係我姨婆
呢D一定要搞清楚
四代同堂真好嘢
最老個個叫太爺
我最後生叫做塞
Get到呢度very骨
果個年代真係怪
兄弟姊妹有齊哂
伯公叔公and姑婆
順序落去冇甩拖
英文所謂既auntie
其實好多個意思
所以西人根本唔會知
姨媽並非我姨姨
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