2002年,我拍了人生中第一個廣告。我放棄醫學院,決定當模特兒,結果我馬上爆紅,我爸爸媽媽很為我驕傲,哈哈!開玩笑的啦!故事其實不是這樣的。我放棄醫學院搬來台灣可能是我做過最瘋狂的事之一。當醫生一直以來都是我很有興趣的工作,這不只是一個父母希望我做的職業而已。我全身心地投入上課、實習、學習我未來要做的無國界醫生的工作。
2002: I got my first commercial. I gave up medical school to become a model. I become an overnight success and my parents were so proud of me. NOT! Quitting medical school to move to Taiwan was probably one of the craziest and riskiest things I’ve done in my life. Medicine was always something I personally loved, and not just a professional my parents pushed me towards. I put my heart and soul into getting into medical school and I wanted to travel the world with Medicine San Frontiers.
但是,拍完廣告之後,我很想很想嘗試這個新的”模特兒”工作,不知道為什麼,因為是新的嗎?還是我想要挑戰自己呢?或是想要多待在亞洲旅遊呢?
But I had this nagging itch to try out this whole modeling thing - don’t know what it was. The excitement of something new? The challenge of a different industry altogether? The desire to travel in Asia a bit longer?
最後,我決定放棄醫學院,因為我覺得像這種比較穩定的行業如果我想回去的話都還會在。但”模特兒”這個比較不穩定、特別,而且比較適合年輕時候試試看的行業,如果要做就要趁現在。
Finally, I decided, a career in medicine will still be there in a few years if I wanted it. But this opportunity to try modeling was probably something I should do younger rather than older.
所以,我全心全意跳進去!寄我的”拒絕信”給醫學院(哈哈哈哈哈哈!我的天啊!好難得是我可以”拒絕”,而不是”被拒絕”)。我搬來台灣,開始我的模特兒挑戰之路。我不能說是模特兒事業啦,因為老實說,其實不是那麼順利,也沒有固定的薪水或是工作機會。我為了生活也同時接了很多其他的兼差,像是教英文、當保母、加入小提琴團隊,也繼續在救護團隊工作。
這裡送給你們看看我那時候的樣子,我的天啊!好多不同look喔!那個化妝-Oh My God!
So, i took a leap of faith and sent in my rejection letter (Haha. take THAT medical school. I reject YOU!) and started doing various TV commercials and print ads in Taiwan. I wish I could have said it was a lucrative or even successful career as a model, but honestly, there were more days in between than actual jobs. I had to support myself with a lot of side jobs: teaching English, baby sitting, joining violin performing groups, continuing my work as an EMT, etc. Anyway, here’s just a few of the very VERY varied looks I had back then. The make up…. Holy moly….
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【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
one thing台灣 在 陳思妤 Sally Facebook 的最讚貼文
🇰🇷 𝕆𝕟𝕖𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘
就像去外面給別人做臉的享受
近期在韓國掀起的「軟膜面膜」推薦💦
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來自韓國的質感保養品牌One Thing
討論度最高的就是他們家的萃取液系列
我自己也很想試試!
今天要分享的是他們家新推出的
🏷ONE THING 明星面膜組
·魚腥草-緊急鎮定
·玻尿酸-持久水潤
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它是使用美國含有豐富礦物質的硅藻土,敷在肌膚上更貼合,還能吸附一般清潔過程中無法去除的老廢角質,還有經過皮膚刺激測試!敏感肌也可以安心使用哦~
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一份面膜(30g),加入70ml~80ml的水/化妝水/萃取液
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我覺得比我想像中簡單不麻煩之外,效果也很好!保養就是要選擇適合自己膚質的產品,用起來效果才會達到最大功效!
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one thing台灣 在 羊羊양양 Youtube 的精選貼文
安妞大家🐑🐑
這次來到燉雞料理非常有名的安東~
一定要自己體驗做一下的!! 我那麼會做菜對吧😋😋
這裡的風景真的超好,
隨手拍下照片都會非常滿意的!!
希望大家喜歡這次影片~
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one thing台灣 在 Pinky Don't Stop Youtube 的最佳貼文
親愛的寶貝們~
現在疫情期間宅在家救世界,乖乖看片的你最棒惹!以下附上時間軸請取用
00:00 intro
00:43 人如其名氧氣衛生棉
04:57 iherb好物之女性益生菌
05:55 素食者可食的鈣鎂
06:35 垂坤又來了
07:40 大愛!無麩質冷凍辣炒年糕
08:43 白飯絕佳拍檔即食海苔
09:48 無麩質頻果肉桂鬆餅粉
11:11 我的溫柔鄉
12:30 澳洲的即溶界的驕傲
13:53 韓國療癒系檸檬茶
14:48 主婦拖地便宜好物
15:51 免刷洗馬桶神器
17:08 fuwa fuwa洗手慕斯
18:11又是洗手類產品
19:16沒什麼好說的牙膏
19:56 長年愛用化妝水
21:49 隱眼. 2214加介紹隱形眼鏡的影片
23:33 用了十幾年的老夥伴
24:39 台灣開架之光回購好多次的眼線液筆
25:48 純素超抗暈染眼線液筆
27:10 無限回購睫毛膏
29:07 傷透我心絕美霧面唇膏
30:50 不挑膚況的好蜜粉
33:05 超捲翹睫毛夾
35:12 終於要下班了(頭好暈)
我要請假(開門見山法😂)相信大家可以在影片裡可以看得出來我的皮膚因為吃A酸的關係整個經歷爆痘期,而且加上擦藥的關係還會刺刺痛痛的,我知道之前我皮膚出問題的時候我也有堅持拍片但這次請假主要是身體出了些情況,其實這部片一拍完我就躺在床上起不來後來叫救護車了,因為我只要一起身就暈、吐,後來醫生說是消化不良(第一次知道消化不良這麼可怕🙀)腸胃部分在我遵從醫生指示喝了幾天椰子水跟吃粥之後是好多了,但是我的頭還是會時不時地暈,加上樓上晚上吵我心理身體都累積了不少壓力,那時候拍片拍到一半就開始暈了但是我一直告訴自己一下就結束了再撐一下,但就一直覺得好熱好悶,現在想想也是太勉強自己了!所以我需要時間把問題排解🙏
樓上真的很吵,我什麼方式都試過了後來也找了警察但還是時不時會被吵到失眠,雖然房東人很好也有在努力處理,但我跟姐夫還是決定要搬家,很喜歡現在的租屋處但我不希望能不能好好睡覺這件事情取決於樓上的小捧油😅 拍片跟剪片需要專注力,其實我在剪片的時候也會有點偏頭痛,所以想暫時抽離一個禮拜!完全不剪片不拍片,就好好找房子,打掃家裡、準備斷捨離、然後沈浸在排球少年跟BTS的世界裡吸取日月精華補充元氣😂之後要搬家我想我真的會請救兵,找專業的片師幫我後製,所以大家愛我就看影片、看業配,偶需要錢😂🙏
之後一個禮拜不拍片不剪片的話,下下禮拜應該是無法禮拜二就出片,但我會TRY MY BEST下下禮拜一定會有影片的!至於我的IG還是會營業,也會有驚喜的消息跟大家分享,所以請持續鎖定我的IG呦💜謝謝您們我愛您們!身體健康真的是最大的財富,願我們都健康幸福快樂❤️
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O2氧氣衛生棉
Jarrow Formulas
Women's Fem Dophilus / 60 Veggie Caps
Solaray
Calcium Magnesium Zinc / 250 VegCaps
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鹹蛋黃酥棒
OURHOME
Gungmul Tteokbokki Korean Rice Cake / Frozen
CJ Bibigo
Korean Seaweed Flakes / Soy Sauce Flavor
ORGRAN
Apple & Cinnamon Pancake Mix
Golden Bridge
Pork Luncheon Meat with Cheese
Moccona
Continental Gold
KOTSAM
Honey Citron Tea
DAISO
Wet Floor Wipes – Extra Thick
Magiclean
Toilet Bleach Power Cleaner
Kirei Kirei
Refreshing Anti-bacterial Foaming Hand Soap / Moisturizing Peach
Simple
Anti-Bacterial Gentle Care Hand Wash
Pearlie White
All Natural Antiplaque Toothpaste
ONE THING
魚腥草水 / 艾草水
Maybelline
Eye & Lip Make Up Remover
OLENS
Scandi Hazel / Spanish Brown
OGUMA
秘之湧水美媒
Solone
持久流暢眼線液筆 / 01迷霧黑、03楓葉棕
KVD Vegan Beauty
Tattoo Liner / Trooper Black
KISSME
新翹力濃密防水睫毛膏
KAI BEAUTY
無重力飛長睫毛膏
SMASHBOX
Always On Liquid Lipstick / Out Loud
HOURGLASS
Veil Translucent Setting Powder
Beauty Cottage
超捲翹睫毛夾
About Me:
前電台DJ、日本人妻、愛台灣的地球人目前座標位置新加坡💕很做自已的美妝YouTuber 目標是終極(中年?)網美😊散播歡樂散播愛😚希望影片和能帶給你好心情讓我們從裡到外都美美的!喜歡美妝、吃東西、大笑和沒有動物測試的產品❤️活動洽詢外場主持及公關品寄送請email至pinkydontstop@gmail.com謝謝您🙏(業配請找我)
Music:
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one thing台灣 在 athventure Youtube 的精選貼文
Forcing myself to record merry something today.
Then I have at least one wonderful thing in a day!
強迫自己一定要至少覺得一天之中有一件事情是開心的, 並記錄下來
這樣每天就至少有一件開心的事
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It's necessary to thank someone who made my day.
I would like to say "thank you" to
egg253, Kalven, Iris, Zac
開始做短片之後,很貪心的想要把更多生活記錄起來
於是乎即使在家無聊的快要發ㄈ,還是自己找事情,並記錄這一切瑣碎
同時調整飲食的路上,當然運動記錄會一直有
但vlog就不會一直放了,畢竟一直放我自己都覺得有點無聊了
當然謝謝回應我以及陪我聊各式議題的各位
讓我睡前不孤單
還是希望能早點出門,或是可以回台灣
我會整個解放的 恩。
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
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IG/ ath.81
Mail/ funsuagui@gmail.com
Equip/ SONY RX100M3