Open Letter To Anas Zubedy - A Counter-Letter to Dr. Zakir Naik
Dear Dr Zakir,
I have to apologize for the outburst of my fellow countryman Anas Zubedy who, in his latest blog posting, has asked you to leave Malaysia. I am here to write to convince you otherwise: that not only should you not leave, but to lengthen your duration of stay, diversify your place of ceramahs, return more often and intensify your fervour in the kind of dakwah that you do: a most non-vindictive, non-antagonistic, scholarly and, unfortunately (the one that became the central raison d’etre of some people’s hatred towards you), full of indisputable truths in them. And I too will give you my reasonings.
Now I doubt though that this letter will be read by you, or even reach you, as compared to Anas’ who probably have his minions try send HIS letter to you. If as such, let’s just regard my letter as a rhetorical one---that it could/should be read by others other than you.
I apologize for Anas because you might think that his words represent the whole country in its entirety or are some kind of epitome of the general Malaysian psyche. Nothing could be further than the truth. You see, we Malaysian Muslims are a motley crew of different characters and idiosyncrasies, right from the most pious and God-conscious to the most despicably and spiritually turpitude. And you know what?
Everyone has access to the internet. Everyone can write their thoughts about Islam. Everyone can claim to be a voice of the religion and, if one is equipped with some kind of babyface- ness and some applauds from some islamophobes or liberal muslims, who knows---one might even get to be popular and well-read.
Anas does not belong to the former category. At least you can realize that much by now just via reading. And I am not saying he is spiritually corrupt either, being well-mannered and having pleasant demeanour. But you can well sense his ... lack of knowledge.
His lack of Islamic Spirit, of a Mujahid, of one who cares least if the religion is going to get some beatings or not. His concern is not that. Rather, his concern is more towards what his readers would think of him, the majority of which are made up of non-muslims and liberal islam.
For how are you expected to write if you are writing for those who would like to listen more about Islam not as one which the prophet SAW has brought, but as one which could be modified to fit in the whims and fancies of the general non-muslim populace.
He does not understand Aqidah, as you can well see his stand on Syiah. He does not conform to the idea of Islam being “ya’lu wa laa yu’la alaihi”, as promulgated by the prophet SAW. To him, all religions are the saaaaaaame. All have equal merits, and Islam is just one of the many numerators pegged on the denominator of goodness.
Contrary to his insistence of being an avid Quran reader (he even has some study group making tafsirs of Quranic verses. I am not joking!), he doesn’t understand the Qur’anic spirit. Or, at most, glance off the many diverse Qur’anic verses on faith and life in general and only pick ones which he thinks would be fodder enough for his general blog readers. I shudder to think of the kind of misinformation, of selective facts and of a general depravity of truths that his non- muslim readers have been exposed to all this while.
Now why is there a phenomenon such as Anas Zubedy? One word:
Born Again.
(OK that’s two)
You see, a 60’s, 70’s Malaysian Islam (of which Anas’ childhood was immersed in) is not the Malaysian Islam that we see now. Those were the years of Mokhtar Dahari, of Malaysian women not donning tudung, of “Guinness Stout Baik Untuk Anda” advertisements still embellishing the local malay-held Utusan newspapers.
In general, a widespread era of neo-jahiliyyah. Then in the 80’s-90s (Anas’ formative university years) there was an explosion of kesedaran, and students coming back from al-Azhar and Madinah University began to convey to their parent folks that hey! We’ve been having it wrong all these times.
There is no Bomoh Jampi. Mandi Safar is wrong. Donning the tudung is wajib. And prayers is a must, not something optional. There was an almost overnight transformation due to being exposed to the truer Islam as opposed to the malay-flavoured Islam prevailing then.
But some things steadfastly refuse to be swept along in the winds of change. City folks preoccupied with chasing the hedonistic dreams and life, and youthful folks (university ones, the kind that Anas was surrounded with) just on the verge of being exposed to newly-found breaking of religious shackles ignored this change.
Theirs was the era of Bakat TV. Of the discotheque. We don’t need no freakin’ Islam to tell us what we can do and what we can’t.
But the winds are stronger. Come the new millennium, people like Anas look around them and find that they have been left behind. Far, far behind. They feel a need to catch up, to be shoulder-to- shoulder with those who carve out a name championing a most noble cause. But what to do?
They don’t have any Islamic trainings. Some have left religion way, way back before. In universities and colleges, while the other students enjoin one another in their usrahs or khurujs or ceramahs, they were busy with dating, with Abba and Bee Gees, with discos. So apart from their primary school years of learning the Juz-‘Amma from their grandfathers or the local ustazs, they really have NOTHING by way of Islamic advancements to be put onto their spiritual resumes.
Beginning from the 2000’s, we see a proliferation of people who you SENSE come from a more liberal society and upbringing but writing about Islam. Suddenly overnight we have these Born-Again writers flooding the internet firstly to show that they THEMSELVES are also champions of Islam and secondly that hey! Read me! I have come with the kind of Islam that is both modern, progressive, accommodative which even the non-muslims love.
Seriously, don’t we wish that we have THESE kinds of people to face Abu Jahal and Abu Lahab during the prophet’s time (SAW)?
But commensurate with Anas’ path towards full righteousness is his being influenced by Quranist ideologies. He is surrounded by people like Syed Akbar Ali, Malaysia’s most vocal proponent of no-hadith, qur’an-only beliefs.
A lack of basic fiqh, fused with a rejection of the prophet’s hadith and general taqwa, and you have a most explosive case of Islamic Misinformation you can ever perceive with two brains.
So there you have it, Dr Zakir. Don’t take too much heart, now that you know certain histories and backgrounds. Onwards to the allegations that Anas have got on you.
1. YOUR PRESENCE IS CAUSING A FAMILY DISPUTE
Seriously, I don’t even feel a need to comment on this. It is self-explanatory, self-revealing. According to that other Anas, Anas bin Malik (RA), the Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: " I wish that I could meet my brothers." The Sahaabah (RAA) asked: "Aren't we your brothers?" He replied: "You are my Companions, but my brothers are those who will believe in me without having seen me."
What can you say, Dr Zakir, some people regard their relationships to the multitude of non-muslims as his family much more than you and me ever are?
As for Anas, yes please be comforted by your “family” here. As for me, my brothers and family are ...err... quite different from yours. Before anyone can point a finger saying that I am against Muhibbah of the races, I am not.
I have a multiracial neighbor that I play games with, drink coffee with and argue with on whether Q could obliterate the Borgs in one fell swoop. But family? Brothers? I only follow the conjunction of the Qur’an: “Verily the believers are brothers.” (al Hujurat-10)
2. YOUR PRESENCE IN MALAYSIA HAVE MEGATIVE IMPACT ON NON-MUSLIMS TOWARDS ISLAM
Now I am scratching my head on this one. Is this a statistical study or what? A scientific poll? Which authority has the audacity to conclude something like this, and if so under what premises? And let me pose a counter questioning to Anas: Name one Islamic Dakwah personality which, if brought to Malaysia, would, in your mind, have a POSITIVE impact on the non-muslims towards Islam?
Hello... None, OK? Positive impact means what. That they nod their heads in appreciations? That they show they like it by purchasing Islamic paraphernalia?
Anas said that your presence is getting non-muslims further away from Islam. This is where Anas’ confusion reaches its peak. He equates people disliking Islam as a sign of failure.
If so, Anas lacks the knowledge of Seerah big, big time. He lacks the understanding, not to mention the spirit of Islamic Dakwah big, big time. (By the way how much does Anas know about dakwah, apart from him being able to SPELL it? Has he ever been in khuruj?)
When the prophet preached Islam in Mecca to Umaiyyah bin Khalaf, Walid bin Mughirah, Utbah bin Rabi’ah and others, what kind of response is Anas expecting to be produced by them. The same as his non-muslim and liberal muslim readers accord him now, with applauds and compliments?
Is Dakwah to be done the result of which should be praises and accolades rather than a general feeling of discomfort onto the ears of those whom the dakwah is given?
Have you, Dr Zakir, started to feel a sense of ... inadequacy in the understanding of the Islamic spirit prevailing on this person now?
3. COMPARATIVE DEBATES DO NOT WORK IN MALAYSIA
Actually Anas, they do. What you PERCEIVE as a non-level playing field as far as dakwah is concerned in Malaysia, is actually a phenomenon best described in one of the talk events of Dr Zakir Naik where after expounding the inconsistencies of some biblical texts, one christian questioner stood up and asked,
“Dr. Zakir. Why do you insult us christians? What have you got against the bible that you are saying that their passages are wrong? Why do you say that the bible is not from God?”
And Dr Zakir answers (Anas pay attention carefully). “If I tell you that 2 X 2 is 5, what do you have to say to that?” And the man answered “That you are wrong.”
To which Dr Zakir replied, “are you insulting me? I say 2 x 2 is 5 and you say I am wrong?” The man said. “I am not insulting you. I am just saying you are wrong”.
“Like wise”, said Dr Zakir. “Neither have I insulted the bible nor have I disrespected it.
What I am saying is it is just wrong. And here is why I have said so .... (proceeds to read and analyse the conflicting verses). Now how can God be the author of some conflicting facts? And if you have scientific, logical, mathematical and factual proofs that you can provide that disproves my thesis, then by all means produce it. If it is sensible enough, I am more ready to declare that I am mistaken in this.”
Anas, if it is not Zakir Naik who could highlight to the masses things like these, then who would. You? Would you like to take his place? No. Notwithstanding, with the kind of “with charity towards all, malice towards none and love for all ...” mentality permeating in you, never in a million years would you be so factual.
You would sooner hide verses such as “Innad-Deen indallah al-Islam” rather than tell your non muslim listeners what Allah says.
Then what would you say in from of Allah on the day of judgement if asked, “O Anas, on earth you played with your friends. Joked with them, socialize with them. But never once did you attract them to Islam.
Even if you think you did, it wasn’t via the way of the prophet. Never once were they attracted to the Quran because never once did you point out that whatever they read other than the Quran was wrong and not from me”.
Now I might sound I am in some level of bigotry here but upon closer scrutiny, I am not. The christians or people from other denominations have equal rights to say that “Actually you muslims are wrong according to our dogma. According to our beliefs, you all will enter hellfire.” And I am okay with that. And get this:
SO IS OUR ENTIRE GOVERNMENT, MUSLIM POPULACE AND ISLAM IN GENERAL. We do not mind you to think that WE are the unsuccessful ones in the hereafter, just like we think YOU are. But will that harm perpaduan?
Not at all. After all this, we still go to our friends’ daughter’s weddings, sit and sip Stevia-laced coffee in any kopitiam, and fight with one another whether Man U is better than Liverpool or imbibe uniappam in any banana-leaf restaurant.
What is preventing us from having our Mokhtar Dahari-Soh Chin Aun-Santokh Singh moments are NOT religion. Definitely NOT Islam. They are politics, and we have diverse ways to view THAT one. Speaking of which ...
Sorry Dr Zakir. Not much comment in here, apart from giving my two-cents view from a religious standpoint. I am neither a politician nor like politics that much, but I do NOT conform to the plan of making our top-most potential people to take over the premiership who have come from a background of homo-sexuality.
Any persons, entities and politicians who conform to this should not be agreed upon. Period. That’s my entire political thoughts wrapped in 2 sentences. Clever, Sensible and Far-looking is what I is.
Lastly Dr Zakir, do not take things too hard, as I said. Perchance if you could be visiting (on your way) to a small dilapidated coffee stall by the roadside in Keramat, maybe you can stop by and I can interest you with some home-made cheese pisang goreng and the best lemang this side of the hemisphere? No?
Sincerely,
Your brother
J Rizal
ps: check for adherence to Anas’ rules for Anonymous writers:-
4. Your presence is slowing down Malaysia’s political revitalization
1. No profanity---Checked
2. Seditious – nope.
3. Don’t play God --- Na’uzubillah.
4. Sweeping statements – Like, “You cause family disputes” kind of sweeping statements?
Nope.
5. Facts as opposed to opinions – Whaaaat? I thought I should be asking you that, especially
with that “Your presence here is causing negative impact” thing
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過361萬的網紅Dan Lok,也在其Youtube影片中提到,★☆★BONUS FOR A LIMITED TIME★☆★ You can download Dan Lok's best-selling book F.U. Money for FREE: http://wealthbuilding.danlok.link ★☆★ SUBSCRIBE TO D...
negative man relationships 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的最佳貼文
《婚姻不是賣身契》(English version below)
常常聽到女客人女學生說,老公看不起她們、不允許她們做想做的事、嫌棄她們的外貌、不尊敬她們的意見、不善待她們的父母,等等不公平的對待。
這真讓吾疑惑了。婚前怎麼沒先把「產品」檢驗好,就下手進貨呢?現在工廠又拒絕退貨,便只能跑來向玳瑚師父吐苦水了。(一笑)
吾常告訴她們,業障比較重的人才投胎做女人。女人得經過至少四十年的生理期,不但因生孩子而身材走樣,還得做工養家。回到家又是監督孩子讀書,又是做家務,又是哄老公,氣喘如牛,沒有了自己。
要遇到一個可靠又可愛的男人,不容易。
玳瑚師父年少時曾轟轟烈烈地談過幾場戀愛,其實,要遇到一個可靠又可愛的女人一樣也很難。(苦笑)
言歸正傳⋯⋯
待在家裡看孩子,被先生嫌,對家計沒貢獻。
想追求自己的夢想,先生問,孩子誰來顧?
把髒衣服丟在地上,太太撿起,太太沒空掃地,先生不幫忙,還責備與埋怨。
委託先生買衛生棉,先生卻非常排斥,說是「髒東西」!吾想,明明還未使用,和買廁紙有何不同?當枕頭睡都行!這真是迷信到糊塗了。
好的姻緣,需要福份。
學佛消業障,爲自己和家人增福增慧,更需要上乘的福份。
我們都該選擇,做個有福氣的人。
女學生當中,也有先生阻止她們來學佛,說是怕她們越來越迷信。
更有女學生說:「師父,我怕我先生會跟著我來,找你麻煩!」
孩子,別怕,師父蠻能打的,哈哈哈!但吾是君子,而且還是修行人,動口不動手。
女人,自己要爭氣,要長智慧。
妳雖然對老公說了「我願意」,與他共同組織一個家庭,但試問,如果妳命運不好,又或者曾經殺生墮胎,他願意幫妳代業嗎?
如果妳事業運差,處處碰壁,妳先生願意把他的福份割給你,而自己沒工作嗎?
如果妳父母健康亮起紅燈,妳先生願意幫她他們祈福消病業嗎?
就算他能,妳就該讓他承受這一切嗎?不是說好,愛他嗎?
自己的命,自己負責。自己的業障,自己消。
我們可以選擇逃避,或委曲求全,但這姻緣不佳的業障,一日不消,妳的幸福一日都祇是自欺欺人罷了。
人與人之間,要多耐心溝通,才能避免誤會。
向玳瑚師父學習,就是學智慧。
吾也曾因爲學生沒有改善自己的德行,沒有捍衛吾,而讓她他家人誤會向吾學佛,浪費人生。
這真是師父引進門,修行在個人,徒兒不肖,殃及師父。
婚姻不該把兩個人綁得死死的,也不該帶著威脅性。這不是真愛。
婚姻,必須給予彼此適當的空間去成長,去做彼此喜歡的事。
先生允許太太去學佛,這功德他也有,因爲他成就了妳。
妳學得好,他的功德就更大,很多生活上的難題都能迎刃而解,只因爲有功德,好運不請便自來。
同樣的,如果先生阻止太太學佛,解脫輪迴,這過失也非常大,恐已種下下地獄的因。
吾不會因爲別人的意見,而左右吾教學的道心。
當吾一直勸一個人來學佛時,必定是因爲吾已看出她他未來的命運有多麼的難堪,想伸出援手去救她他。
風水命理不能解決所有人世間的煩惱,唯有佛法才可以。
但如果她他還是決定鬆開吾的手,往熾熱的火坑裡跳,吾也不會難過。
吾已盡心盡力,成敗如何,一切隨緣。
其實根本也沒有成或敗。除了超越生死以外,這人間本來就無事,有事,也是妳你自己拿繩子往身上五花大綁罷了。
.....................
I often hear from my female clients and students, that their husbands look down on them, disallow them to do what they wish, despise their appearances, disrespect their opinions, mistreat their parents, etc.
This really got me perturbed. Why didn't they do a thorough check on the "product", before placing an order? Now that the factory does not accept refund, they can only run to Master Dai Hu to pour out their sorrows. (laughs)
I often tell them, people with more negative karma get to be reborn as women. Women have to undergo at least 4 decades of menstrual cycles. Not only do they sacrifice their hour figures for their children, they still have to work to pay the bills.
When they get home after a long of work, they have to supervise the children in their studies, do the chores and make the husband happy. At the end of the day, they pant like a water buffalo, and lose themselves.
It is not easy to meet a man who is reliable and adorable.
Actually, Master Dai Hu had his fair share of relationships in his younger days. It is just as difficult to find a lady who is reliable and adorable. (bitter laugh)
I digress...
When a woman stays at home to look after the children, the husband laments that she does not contribute to the household income.
When she wishes to pursue her dreams, the husband asks, who is going to look after the children?
When dirty clothes are thrown carelessly on the floor, she picks them up for laundry. Yet when she has no time to sweep the floor, the husband does not help but scolds and finds fault with her instead.
When she asks the husband for help in purchasing sanitary napkins, the husband finds it repulsive, and claimed that those are "dirty" things!
That gets me thinking. How is unused sanitary napkins different from buying toilet paper? One can even use them as pillows! This is truly superstitious at its worst.
A good marriage requires good fortune.
To learn Buddhism, and eradicate negative karma, helping the entire family to boost its wisdom and fortune, calls for even higher fortune.
We should all choose to be people of good fortune.
Among my female students, there are husbands who prevent them from learning Buddhism, as they worry about their wives becoming overly superstitious.
There are also female students that said, "Master, I worry that my husband will tag along with me and find trouble with you!"
My child, don't fear, Master is quite adept at street fighting. Hahaha! But I am a gentleman, and a Buddhist practitioner, who uses his eloquence, and not his fists.
A woman must stand up for herself and grow her wisdom.
Although you said "I do" to your husband, and form a family together with him, ask yourself, if you have a poor destiny, or has aborted and killed, will your husband take over your karma?
If your career is floundering, and runs into a brick wall everywhere, will your husband be willing to shave off his good fortune for you, and suffer a poor career instead?
If the health of your parents plummets, will your husband seek blessings for them, and eradicate their sickness karma?
Even if he can, should you let him undertake all these? Didn't you said you love him?
We are responsible for our own destinies. We have to be the ones to eradicate our negative karma.
Sure, we can choose to run away or compromise ourselves, but the bad karma of a poor marriage will remain, and the so-called happily ever after is just a sham and self-deception at its best.
The channels of communication should always be open and constant, to prevent misunderstandings.
When you learn from Master Dai Hu, you are learning wisdom.
I have been misunderstood by families of my students, when my students did not improve in their moral conduct and speak up for me. Their families would think that learning the Dharma from me was a waste of life.
Just like you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink, the master initiates the apprentices but their skill depends on their own efforts.
When they fail to, they put their teacher into hot water.
A marriage should not be a kidnap of each other's freedom. Nor should it be built on the foundation of threats. This is not true love.
There should be sufficient space for each other to grow and pursue what they like.
When the husband allows his wife to learn the Dharma, he would partake in the merits generated. Because his permission contributes to her accomplishment.
When the wife gets really good at what she learns, his merits would snowball. Many challenging issues in life would be resolved readily, as good luck comes uninvited when merits are plentiful.
Similarly, when the husband prevents his wife from learning Buddhism, to break free from the clutches of reincarnation, this is a grave mistake that plants the seed to Hell.
My commitment to impart the teachings of Buddha will not be swayed by the frivolous reasons of others.
When I repeatedly advise you to come and learn the Dharma, it must be because I foresee the hardships ahead in your Destiny, and I wish to lend a helping hand to you.
Chinese Metaphysics will not solve all problems in this mortal world. Only the Dharma has this ability.
Should you decide to let go of my hand, and throw yourself into the scorching fire pit, I will not be sad either.
I had already done my best. The end result, be it success or failure, is all up to Fate.
The truth is, there is no success or failure. Other than liberation from reincarnation, nothing truly matters in this human world. If you think it matters, that is because you choose to pick up the rope, loop it around your neck and tie your arms behind your back.
negative man relationships 在 Tiffany Shek 註冊營養師 Facebook 的最佳貼文
Who lives by principles of “The life changing magic of tidying up” by Marie Kondo🙋🏻♀️? You basically throw out belongings that no longer spark joy. This little 🐰 case certainly brings back beautiful memories and joy to me! But man I can’t even tell which 📱 it’s for 🙈. It’s important to let go of things that no longer suit you, be it negative thoughts, dusty books that-you-say-you’ll-get-to-reading-but-have-not-touched-in-a-decade, toxic relationships☠️ ... let’s take some time this weekend to reflect and get rid of sh*t that longer fuel you ¨̮ Happy Saturday 🐰🐰!
negative man relationships 在 Dan Lok Youtube 的最佳貼文
★☆★BONUS FOR A LIMITED TIME★☆★
You can download Dan Lok's best-selling book F.U. Money for FREE: http://wealthbuilding.danlok.link
★☆★ SUBSCRIBE TO DAN'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW ★☆★
https://www.youtube.com/user/vanentrepreneurgroup?sub_confirmation=1
There are TWO FORMS of communication that must be mastered.
1. Internal Communication.
This is what you are saying to yourself about any area of your life. That includes relationships, health, wealth, skills, and abilities.
“If you think you can or think you can’t you are right.”
Your internal belief system affects your external Communication
All the skills in the world won’t help you if you don’t work on your internal communication first.
Whoever has more certainty will influence the other party.
If you want to persuade others you have to start with yourself.
You need to believe in what you do in order to get others to follow.
Don’t let fear take over Internal communication.
You need to have this kind of conviction: I’m going to sell something they don’t even know they want yet but in the end they will thank me for it.
You have to argue against the negative little voice in your head. Your positive energy has to overpower the negative. Tell him or her to shut the hell up.
Exercise
Have good internal dialog in the mirror.
I’m not talking about affirmations. Not “I’m a happy successful person”
Instead, handle your own objections with yourself
2. Outward Communication.
This is your ability to influence other people. Now influence in this case is not just getting people to buy from you. It is not manipulation either.
The difference between persuasion and manipulation is your intent. If you intend to help the other person that’s persuasion. If you use people to get what you want at their loss, that’s manipulation. Use these powers for good not evil.
Dan "The Man" Lok, a multi-millionaire and serial entrepreneur, and an international best-selling author. Dan is considered the world’s leading expert in internet marketing and is referred to by many as the “Millionaire Mentor.”
In fact, if you Google “Dan Lok”, you’ll see his name is all over 1,000,000 web pages! (ONE MILLION)
Companies under his leadership generate more than $18+ million in sales a year, and tens of millions of dollars in revenue in the last few years.
Dan is one of the rare keynote speakers and business consultants that actually owns a portfolio of highly profitable business ventures.
Visit http://danlok.com for his latest blogs, news, tips, podcast, and where to catch him LIVE!
★ Remember to Like, Share and Subscribe for more videos! ★
★☆★ Subscribe to Dan Lok's Podcast ★☆★
Imagine standing on the shoulders of the titans of entrepreneurship – some of world’s most successful and influential individuals – and be able to listen in on their content-rich conversations.
Subscribe to the World's #1 Business Podcast for Entrepreneurs and High Achievers: http://www.shouldersoftitans.com
★☆★Subscribe to our channel★☆★
https://www.youtube.com/user/vanentre...
★☆★Share this video★☆★
https://youtu.be/y3RFj-F9Qvc
★☆★Watch more videos★☆★
https://www.youtube.com/user/vanentre...
★☆★Connect with Dan Lok★☆★
Dan's Official Website: http://www.danlok.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danlokfan
Twitter: https://twitter.com/danthemanlok
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danlok
Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Dan-Lok/e/B002B...
Keywords: internet millionaire, online millionaire, internet entrepreneur, become an entrepreneur, online business, entrepreneurship, Dan Lok, internet marketing, build a business, how to start your own business, successful young entrepreneurs, start a business, create a business, vancouver entrepreneurs, vancouver millionaire, financial freedom, financial success, motivation speech, motivational speaker, inspirational speeches, business success, dan the man lok, grow business, entrepreneur advice, entrepreneur motivation, communication skills, communication, public speaking, vancouver business