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Cancer and how it affect's fertility is something that is discuss in this episode of #talkinglifewithmeisze. When a person of reproductive age has cancer, fertility sometimes can be overlooked because the aim is to save the person's life, so what happens when a cancer survivor wants kids? These issues will be addressed in this topic on cancer and how it affect's fertility which can be taboo but shouldn't be.
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今天大家有沒有被小孩回學校上課的圖文洗版？
我在這裡就不繼續洗了，用很久沒上的空瑜騙一下版面😆
但想要分享這三個多月來很大的感觸，就是：
Everything happens for a reason.
（一切事情的發生，都是最好的安排）
很簡單的一句話，很俗爛，對。
但在這三個月中發生了很多事情，讓我有足夠時間感受某些事情的起承轉合。
比如說，學校停課這件事情對於父母來說真的是相當大的衝擊，
接下來長時間和小孩相處磨合的日子，大家都都從陰影走出了嗎？🤔
更不用說和另一半多出了更多的分工以及更多的爭吵，#覺得真的是家庭的魔王關請留言+1
但當一切事情跌跌宕宕終於走出一個結果後，回頭看才發現，好險那時給我重重的一擊，好讓彼此反省做不好的地方，有耐心地把事情解決，竟從中得到許多意外的美好，也更了解小孩、另一半需要什麼模樣的愛。
Everything happens for a reason. That reason causes change. Sometimes it hurts. Sometimes it’s hard. But in the end it’s all for the best.
當然，要來點負能量也是可以，如果你現在正走在起承轉合的「轉」階段，
沒關係，這句話送你：
I know everything happens for a reason, but what the FUCK? 😎
哪一句最符合你現在的心情？留言順便練習一次吧！🤘 🤘
Grief.
It's something no one wishes to experience. Yet, it happens to everyone at one point or another in our lives. Actually, it doesn't happen just once. The older we get, grief will come knocking on our doors every once in a while because that is just how life works .While I've always tried to look on the bright side of life, July was truly a turbulent and depressing month for me.
You see, while still dealing with the shocking local news regarding mental health issues and trying my best to have an open discussion with the kids as we head into the exam period, my own world fell apart when I was informed that my beloved grandma was hospitalised and in a coma.
For the next two weeks, it was terribly dreadful that we couldn't visit her due to the pandemic restrictions. We had video calls with her almost every day to tell her we love her and gently urge her to wake up but I wanted to be by her side so, so badly. My spirits were lifted when my Mum told me she opened her eyes and we even heard her saying "Bye bye". Surely that is a good sign and she is getting better, right?
Alas, things deteriorated swiftly and by the end of that fortnight, she decided to leave this world. I can't go into details now without being a wreck because I just miss her so much and have so many regrets. For now, I am working on gathering her photos and making a video so that my kids will always remember her. I guess when I am ready, I will dedicate a post to her and pour my feelings out. But for now, I'm just not brave enough to do it yet. In this post of "Happiness is...", I've realised it's okay to sometimes be a little lost and a little sad.
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Weekend. Raining. Work had been hectic. Needed to take some time off to recharge. Covid. WFH. Blurred lines between work and personal time. No time to shut off from work completely. Found myself working from screens to screen. Laptop to phone. Even leisure is watching videos online.
In need of time for a digital detox.
Found a bookstore that was opened in Feb this year, in the heart of Orchard Road, Wheelock Place. Where the Borders flagship used to be. If you know what I’m talking about, you’re from my time. I recall the times when I was still in secondary school, hanging at Borders with my friends who love reading, and I will be there checking out the CDs.
Heard that it has a 2 storey space with a cafe and gallery as well. Heard that the ones in China open 24hours, although it’s not happening in SG yet
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Zall Bookstore, an outlet with more than 30,000 books mostly in Chinese, also has a cafe and art gallery
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“Ms Laura Yan Ge, 24, who is general manager of the Singapore store, said at a media preview on Friday that while the company did not anticipate the coronavirus outbreak erupting amid its expansion, it believes bookstores are especially vital during a pandemic.
‘Because of Covid-19, there is a lot of distance between people nowadays," she said in Mandarin. "We believe books will help to close this gap. They provide food for thought and people can use them to widen their worlds.’”
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As a creator myself, I need to constantly find inspiration.
While I can readily find all sorts of information online, sometimes I found my mind being constantly overloaded instead. We read. Socialise. We basically live most parts of our lives in the virtual world, and now we have lesser and lesser reasons to get out there anymore.
So, why a new book store? When was the last time you visited a book store?
Being here made me realised that it’s not about the books. It’s about the space. It’s about the experience. It’s about being here and being present. And what happens when you unplug from the internet and be present in the moment? You’ll get involuntarily intrigued by the surroundings, the people, the architecture, the noise, the beauty of it all. You’ll find headspace. You’ll find your inspiration. You’ll even find a new you.
When was the last time you stepped outside, set aside time just for yourself, and experience life beyond the screen?
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Most of the time, when you cry your heart out to others, the most they can advise you is "stay positive dear." Well, now what exactly stay positive means?
How do you even stay positive when all the emotions are compiling into massive energy and overwhelm you at the most unimaginable way?
1. Accept That "You Are Who You Are"
You are you. You can't change you and be what others are expecting out of you. If you are the person who likes to spend time all alone then don't take the extra initiative to change what you prefer.
Accept what you truly are. If you are clueless about you then study about your own self. Get to know you personally. When reading a novel makes you happy, nothing that others say is going to change your mind now. You know exactly why you are avoiding all the other plans and reading a novel now.
When you accept you as you are, nothing is going to kill the positivity that happens around you when you are doing your happy stuff. In fact, you will feel more confident and super positive as you know exactly why you're doing certain things in life.
2. Set A Goal To Reach
While you are surrounded by grey cloud, you would be able to see a path that leads you out of the grey cloud. Your Goal.
Yes, you would immediately be able to focus on your goal and ignore all the negativity around you. Focus on flourishing and enriching life.
If you are easily distracted, then make sure that each step, though it is a very small step brings you forward towards your goals.
3. Plan Your Day
Wake up to having plans each day. Don't wake up all lost and not knowing what to do. If can plan your day one day ahead. Have a list of things to do.
Wake up with the energy to accomplish things. If you feel like resting than rest well. No mood should make you feel weak. Have a reason to why you deserve the rest. If you feel low then distract yourself with another plan.
Meditate or something. Try downloading a new game on your phone. Try reading a new novel. Figure out what will keep you positive and active throughout the day. Plan it well.
4. Let go
Don't hold it anymore. Whatever that has been breaking you into pieces is now got to leave you. Sometimes, it is you who would have been holding on to it. Let it go.
Try living a life without that negativity and you will start noticing other unopened doors in life. Start to explore and discover other parts of life that you haven't figure yet.
Let the negativity go and start opening your eyes to all the positive things around you. Sometimes putting closure to your negativity will help you to move on fast. Do it.
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"The 1975 - I Always Wanna Die (Sometimes)" Lyrics:
I bet you thought your life would change
But you're sat on a train again
Your memories are sceneries
For things you said but never really meant
You build it too high to say goodbye
Because you're not the same as them
But your death, it won't happen to you
It happens to your family and your friends, I pretend
And I always wanna die sometimes
I always wanna die sometimes
You win, you lose, you sing the blues
There's no point in buying concrete shoes, I refuse
And I always wanna die sometimes
I always wanna die sometimes
I always wanna die
Am I me through geography?
A face collapsed through entropy
I can hardly speak
And when I try, it's nothing but a squeak
On the video, living room for small
If you can't survive, just try
And I always wanna die sometimes
I always wanna die
Always wanna die
Always wanna die
Always wanna die
And I always wanna die
Always wanna die
Always wanna die sometimes
Sometimes
Sometimes
Sometimes
I sometimes always wanna die
Always wanna die
Always wanna die
Always wanna
Sometimes
