ความสุขนอกความสำเร็จ
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เมื่อวานเพื่อนคนหนึ่งอายุครบ 40 ปี เขียนสรุปบทเรียนจากชีวิตตัวเองไว้ยี่สิบกว่าข้อ หนึ่งในนั้นคือ--ความสำเร็จไม่มีจริง มีแต่ความสุขในแต่ละวันที่ได้สัมผัส และข้อถัดมาคือ--ชีวิตไม่ต้องมีเป้าหมายก็ได้ แค่มีความสุขกับการได้เจอ ได้ทำ ได้สัมผัส ได้ใช้ชีวิต อ่านแล้วผมว่าน่าสนใจดี เพราะชีวิตทุกวันนี้เรามุ่งมั่นกับสองสิ่งที่เพื่อนผมบอกว่า 'ไม่มีจริง' และ 'ไม่ต้องมีก็ได้'
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Continue ReadingHappiness outside success
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Yesterday, a friend turned 40 years old, wrote a summary of twenty lessons from his life. One of them is -- success is not real. Only happiness in each day that you touch and the next thing is -- life doesn't need goals. Just be happy with To meet, experience, live, read and I think it's interesting because we are committed to two things that my friends say ' not real ' and ' don't have to have to have '
Thinking about it. I found that success and goals are the same thing. Without Target, there is no pin. When setting the top of the mountain as a goal. When I reach, when I reach, when I lift the goal, success
The question is, can we live without setting a destination if we can, what to do?
Imagine if we keep walking, no goal, no direction and confused. Because every path is equal value. Nothing is better than anything when we don't take our own cravings. The confusion there can cause two possibilities is one - we step. My legs are not out because I don't know where to walk and two - we keep walking around because there is no right way so there is no wrong way either.
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The older I get, the more I find that no answer works for every moment and age of young life. Goals are important. We need to know and determine what to spend time and energy for.
Then live a young life like a ' Magnifying Glass ' that combines sunlight into ' one point '.
' Target ' makes us ' FOCUS '
Focus may bring more stress. If you focus on the same point, the same thing for a long time. One day we may question ourselves -- is there only this life?
As time passes after burning many sheets of paper, we may find that the focus of light to burn the paper is no longer fun and not challenging. The success of setting fire is no longer meaningful. So we raise the magnifying glass.
What we find is that when light doesn't unite, when we don't keep staring at a small piece of paper that we want to finish the fire, we find that there are many more worlds outside paper to find and the sun shines in every direction.
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In another age, we are less interested in 'goal' and enjoy touching what life gives, beauty, experience or even problems and obstacles.
When we don't focus on one point, we open for everything.
No need to travel to the pinned mountain top. You will be happy. Walking into the alley and find beautiful flowers on the way. It also brings a smile.
Because the top of the mountain is not as important as before. For those who have come up to many orders.
On the opposite, small flowers, clouds in the sky and the smile of the near ones, including the good vibes of those who met on the way that I used to overlook when I was still ' FOCUS ' narrow ' that makes me feel good. It's the charm of traveling because it's a new Looking at the top of the mountain
It's okay to walk like this. It's okay and success is not as important as touching good things in front of you. But this is because I have been aiming and achieved in a certain amount.
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In this age, when putting the magnifying glass, putting the mountain top goal, we will be wide open for everything, events and all paths.
When there is no 'way only' I want to go, I can go anywhere.
When there is no ' success ', there is no ' failure '
When there is no ' expectation ', you will not be ' disappointed ' with what you
And life is more open to everything on the way than 'must be the top of the mountain' is easier to be happy.
Because happiness is no longer waiting on the top of the mountain. Our eyes change to look and feel the happiness in everyday in the small details of life such as the smile of a child or lover. A good book. Flowers Bloom in the morning. The Fragrance of coffee.
And if there is nothing like your heart, just move on. Find a way to continue because it doesn't have to be ' like that ' anymore. It can be other ways when we are more flexible with goals.
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In a world that is not heart, there is always something for us to smile and be happy. We see the world and life more compromise with it. In fact, it's more compromise with ourselves.
There is no wrong way. There is no wrong way. Waiting to experience the path will be different from a young age. When the way is blocked, the rest is unacceptable way.
In fact, life always has way more than one.
These things arrive, one day, it happens. Those who come through these experiences before. We meet. Until one day we will stop playing the magnifying glass.
The day we put the magnifying glass, we found that the world was bigger than ever.
Life is more expansive than the framework of success we define and beautiful details to put down the magnifying glass before we can see.
There are many beautiful things besides the mountain top.
No need to light the fire. Just enjoy the sunlight.
However, setting a small mountain top makes us know where we wake up. The difference from young age is that we target only to draw roughly, not to die with that goal.
It's good to get there. It's good.
Because every path has beautiful things while waiting.
On the way too fail.
When Flexible with goals, we find that apart from victory or success, life has other types of beauty.
Just look outside the paper plate that we take to death with the light by combining light. Only a small spot of life.Translated
