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突然發現這首很有意義的歌
不知道從什麼時候...
可能是人漸漸長大了
身邊的人、社會都告訴我們當成年人要堅強
不能像小孩子一樣 為了一件小事而哭
可是...
“It’s OK to be sad, it’s OK to lose your mind
Life is not a childhood fantasy
Sometimes it appears to have no mercy…”
人生總有很多不如意的事情
各種小事堆積起來
心裡的難過會日漸擴張
有時候崩潰一下 大哭一場又有何不可？
為什麼一定要扮作很堅強 活得很自在呢？
「不必裝作退燒 不必裝作放低了
真的心碎 不必裝作笑
若你給搶走 的太緊要」
如果真的很難過 如果有些傷口真的還沒痊愈
不用假裝已經放下了 不必勉強自己去笑
沒有人給你安慰不緊要
給自己一個擁抱 一個me time
好好的大哭一場
「儘管哭到破曉 不必裝作看開了
小小激憤不必 去治療
平和 等於 愛的感覺 死了
哀傷 好過 扮麻木算了。」
I genuinely believe that sometimes it's not easy for some of us to share what's on our minds or how we feel. We get annoyed, irritated, angry and sad all at once that we don't know how to share precisely what's happening to us at that very moment. #saturdaythoughts
#writerstag #poemsofig #writtenword #mindispowerful #understandinghuman #writersconnection #writersofinsta #writersnetwork
Grief.
It's something no one wishes to experience. Yet, it happens to everyone at one point or another in our lives. Actually, it doesn't happen just once. The older we get, grief will come knocking on our doors every once in a while because that is just how life works .While I've always tried to look on the bright side of life, July was truly a turbulent and depressing month for me.
You see, while still dealing with the shocking local news regarding mental health issues and trying my best to have an open discussion with the kids as we head into the exam period, my own world fell apart when I was informed that my beloved grandma was hospitalised and in a coma.
For the next two weeks, it was terribly dreadful that we couldn't visit her due to the pandemic restrictions. We had video calls with her almost every day to tell her we love her and gently urge her to wake up but I wanted to be by her side so, so badly. My spirits were lifted when my Mum told me she opened her eyes and we even heard her saying "Bye bye". Surely that is a good sign and she is getting better, right?
Alas, things deteriorated swiftly and by the end of that fortnight, she decided to leave this world. I can't go into details now without being a wreck because I just miss her so much and have so many regrets. For now, I am working on gathering her photos and making a video so that my kids will always remember her. I guess when I am ready, I will dedicate a post to her and pour my feelings out. But for now, I'm just not brave enough to do it yet. In this post of "Happiness is...", I've realised it's okay to sometimes be a little lost and a little sad.
Hey lovelies, it's actually been a very tough couple of weeks, i've felt unmotivated, sad, down, discomfort in my own body, and here are my attempts to make those days a bit better. Changed up the furniture layout of my apartment, and got an iherb haul. if you guys have any iherb favs please lemme know, i get so overwhelmed with online shopping sometimes, i don't even know what to search
Love Laura 💕
▹Instagram - http://instagram.com/lauraribeiro.x
Time Stamps:
00:00 - intro
00:18 - morning routine
02:02 - body discomfort, outfit & bubble tea
04:15 - making japanese food, getting har done
05:21 - new hair and room layout change
06:57 - cleaning and organizing home
08:56 - iherb haul
10:39 - going to the movies and outfit
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▹Apple Music - https://music.apple.com/jp/artist/laura-ribeiro/1478686380
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days in my life 🌿 unmotivated, body discomfort, furniture layout, iherb haul
sub count: 23.2k thankuuuu
at the end of the day, it's the little things that counts. Sometimes things will not turn out the way we anticipated so let's not bring ourselves down even further by kicking yourself about one bad day.
Very thankful for my family, boyfriend and close friends who always remind me that I matter. I just need to learn how to train my mind to not let negative thought cloud my judgements all the time.
Watch my previous video, how do you do long distance TWICE? chitchat with John & YuKi:
https://youtu.be/gYIZJEic1uQ
You can say hi to me here:
Instagram/Twitter - @rikaadrina
TikTok - notrikaplsdontlookforme
Thought I'd start including FAQs now haha:
1. how old are you? 23 (born in 1998)
2. how tall are you? 5ft (yes i am short shhhhh)
3. what’s your ethnicity? malay & japanese
4. what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: fujifilm xa3
➭ mic: my iPhone 7 hahahaha
➭ editing: premiere pro
Click on the links below to watch the commercials that I produced and acted in:
➭ Produced Maxis Raya Si Sakan 2021 - https://youtu.be/3ZM0apf5GWk
➭ Featured Talent in Sabella Raya 2021 - https://youtu.be/CZFwQ0FA1cA
Song credits:
1. the extra opportunities of a leap year - LULLATONE
衛蘭 Janice Vidal - 《It’s OK To Be Sad》 Live Session Cover
Vocal: Jess Sin & Kayle Chin
Guitar: Kwan Lok
Harmony Arrangement: Jess Sin & Kayle Chin
Mixing: Clifton Mo & Jess Sin
Cinematographer: Jacky Wong & Clifton Mo
Video Production: Jess Sin
Production Studio: B16 Production Studio
Special thanks to Jacky & Clifton's iPhone 12 Pro s???
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Connect with me:
Instagram ➢ jsym_ (https://www.instagram.com/jsym_/)
Facebook ➢ JESS SIN
YouTube ➢ JESS SIN
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衛蘭 Janice Vidal - It’s OK To Be Sad
作詞：黃偉文
作曲：Ariel Lai / 衛蘭 / Cousin Fung
編曲：Ariel Lai@emp
監製：Edward Chan / Ariel Lai@emp / Cousin Fung@emp
你想見他 想見他 沒有他
如常每日假裝 不算太差
有一晚 突然倦透了
然後你哭了 其實未夠瀟灑
浩劫記憶 縱使可怕 別拼命壓住它
抱擁終生的痛 學接受有瘡疤
來提提你 難平的
從未因包上紗布 能自欺 好了吧
不必裝作退燒
不必裝作放低了
真的心碎 不必裝作笑
若你給搶走 的太緊要
如承認那痛苦 能延續你心跳 就靠它撐腰
儘管哭到破曉
不必裝作看開了
小小激憤不必 去治療
平和 等於 愛的感覺 死了
哀傷 好過 扮麻木算了
你想嘆息 請嘆息
難免的 徬徨 憤怒 忐忑 不要壓抑
至少有真正被愛過
才是有資格 回味滴血軌跡
若怕喪失 愛的火氣 恨意是有用的
記得怎麼掙扎 別這樣快安息
難受是對的 逃避是錯的
難道將喪禮繞過 無視哭的價值
不必裝作退燒
不必裝作放低了
真的心碎 不必裝作笑
若你給搶走 的太緊要
如承認那痛苦 能延續你心跳 就靠它撐腰
儘管哭到破曉
不必裝作看開了
小小激憤不必 去治療
平和 等於 愛的感覺 死了
哀傷 好過 扮麻木算了
誰人被意外分開了 千里之遙
誰被掛念的針刺痛 快受不了
唯獨為情崩潰 至可暗地 忘掉亂世紛擾
跟他再親密 團聚十秒
It’s ok to be sad
It’s ok to lose your mind
Life is not a childhood fantasy
Sometimes it appears to have no mercy
You may wanna pretend
But the way you laugh
Is a tragedy
It’s ok to be sad
It’s ok to lose your mind
When life brings the darkest misery
Let it be your strongest energy
哀傷 好過 扮麻木算了
聲張 好過 扮成未發燒
哀傷 激發 生長 熱情又滿了
#衛蘭 #ItsOKToBeSad #翻唱
