佳節將至，值得思考。
當然，每個人都有也一個屬於自己的故事，未必每個人都可以有一個快樂聖誕，你可能知道，也可能不知道。
盲目的祝賀，原來，有些時候也會很惱人。
Not everyone feels festive during the holiday season.
To people who are dealing with illness or injury, divorce or a breakup, incarceration or grief, a well-intentioned phrase like “Happy holidays!” can feel like a cruel joke.
Knowing what to say or do to be supportive isn’t always intuitive. So many of us say nothing at all. Or we say something really general – and unhelpful – like, “Let me know if I there’s anything I can do.”
When Adam M. Grant and I began studying resilience, we realized that we’ve often made mistakes when we’ve tried to offer comfort. To avoid that, Adam and I shared with USA TODAY what to say and do when the holidays aren’t so happy for the people you love.
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