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1. Bercakap.
Usia KRITIKAL : 0-2 tahun.
...Continue ReadingBetween Reading, talking and writing, which one to start first?
1. Talk.
Critical Age: 0-2 years old.
This is the most important element in the life of a human being. Talking is important for us to communicate about our thoughts and feelings so that the people around know what we want to say so that there will be no misunderstanding.
Start since your child just came out to see the world, which is within 24 hours after being born. Greet your child, give greetings... say 'hi', kiss.... hug, say whatever you want to say. Just chat. It looks like it's not right when sitting in the ward, we're talking alone while giving eye contact to the baby. But that's the first thing we have to do since our child was born. And konsistenlah talks to them until they grow up, nak2 in the first two years.
I often ask parents, ' child can talk or not? 'most answer' already, said... ABC, 123 all he knows. Even jawi letters. ' I said, that's not talking. Where is the same talk by knowing those letters!
Talking is communicating. There is an eye contact, got a child answering back to the question, react to the name from mom dad, calling, not mention it.
Once when my child was admitted in the hospital, there was a mother 'talking' to her child who was a year and 6 months in spelling. That's strong! ' B.U.K.U... Book! ' I guess he's the target of his child to be good at spelling while talking. The rest of the time, I see his son just given a gadget and 'learn' through gadgets. Rampage Toksah say it. As long as something is wrong, the child is just raging. Noisy one ward listen!
I'm crazy looking at it!
Spelling is not talking!
Reading is not talking!
Counting not talking!
Talk need to have eye contact.
Speaking must have a understanding between two parties.
Talk must have expression and expression.
Talking is communication, there are people who listen, there are people who reply back.
Speaking must have a impersonation, better to copy in terms of style or sound of rattles.
Giving gadgets and learning at this age?
If possible, avoid it!
2. Doodling & painting
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
It's important for your child to learn to hold a pencil or a crayon or a big painting brush at the moment for a doodling session.
If you're worried that your child will doodle the wall, buy a big paper paper, paste it on the wall of the house. If there is more budget, wall the wall with paint is easy to delete. If it's so hard to do, just accept that the walls of the house have to be doodle.
Contenting helps the child express their mind.
Doodling helps children strengthen hand muscles.
Content there is a visual element of perceptual (this is another chapter).
Doodling creates midline crossing abilities.
Doodling helps the formation of a finger holding a pencil (Pencil Grip).
Don't care where to doodle. On Paper, on the floor, near the wall, books... we are grown up, please think of the best way to encourage children to be doodling. Follow everyone who wants to control your heart and feelings to see the house messy or what.... most importantly, think of the way!
May I make the element of the sand, the ground, the stone... for the wood twig... no complaints, as long as the child can be conteng.
During this age, don't force your child to write too much. It's fun to ask to write ABC, number, jawi letter...
Teach child painting after doodling.
Paint bentuk2 that is around us.
Animal Paint, plants, homes, or anything.
Accompany the child to draw.
Use water colour, crayon or any drawing tools.
It's not a waste to spend money buying these things. Not a loss!
3. Coloring.
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
Teach the color at this age.
Coloring activity helps children form straight, vertical, oblique, rounded lines and so on.
The Color of the painting that is in let it fit the age of the child.
Don't be asked to coloring the complex painting. If possible, avoid coloring the painting inside the gadget.
Coloring in gadgets does not bring any meaning to hand muscle. How to develop a memory motor against the line?
At this age, you don't have to worry if the children are still not good at the color in the line. Still the color out the line is normal. No problem. The most important thing is, he knows where to color it.
Create a concept of coloring as early as possible. No need to wait until school is just about to coloring.
No need to bring to the mall, coloring at the that has of for in, then you have to pay. The color at home is better. It's better for us to draw a picture of our family, ask our children to be color. Simple. Saving a lot.
4. Writing and reading.
Critical age of writing: 4 years
Starting age knowing letters and numbers: 4 years
Beginning of reading age: 5 years and above.
Age that is considered late to be able to read: 11 years.
Logically, when the child has learned a lot of lines through doodling and coloring, it's self-prepare to write. This time it's easy to write letters and numbers even though they don't know the letters and numbers yet. No problem.
Can teach to write in a session, then teach to know the letter in the later session.... at the age of 4! This is the earliest age! Not too late yet.
No need to worry because once a child and learn letters, a few letters... start to read at the age of 5
If we follow all this process gradually, God willing, the child has no problem! No need to worry too much.
If we 'turn' all this process, there will be consequences because it has violated the development of a human being.
If you feel there is an effect, don't be shy to bring the therapist to fix the problems that are available.
So much.
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Picture for example only not encourage for children to doodle walls.
Parents please paste the big paper on the wall so that the children are free to play at the same time they can work comfortably
Source: Liyana Raya
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1 year and 5 months baby not talking 在 Jojo 吴俐璇 Facebook 的精選貼文
I didn’t quite like u when u first migrated back from Singapore. I was not used to ur full power energetic mode - hopping with ur two back legs like a bunny, eyes staring straight into mine asking for treats. I thought u were annoying. Of course, u were just a baby, u were only a little more than one year old. U were energetic yes, but never the cuddly type, definitely not the type that would let me or anybody hug u to sleep. Oh I remember that deep sigh of urs if I pin and lock u down. U didn’t like it, and that was the whole purpose of me doing it, to annoy u back. Yeah I bullied my baby a lot. All the games I played with her were the rough ones. I played with her like she was a big dog, and she would always lie down belly up panting and opening her mouth wide like she was laughing out hard. For the longest time I asked, why couldn’t u be just a little calmer so I could look more glamorous carrying u out of the pet salon like how Paris Hilton carried hers? Every single time i fetch u I felt like my top was going to be ripped open by u. But well mum said u were like me so I didn’t have any more complains afterwards. U were like me. So much like me. I gradually grew so fond of u I didn’t know when and how it happened. Oh and those numerous times of hide and seeks! I’d always be really creative about where to hide, and u’d always have to spend some time cracking the ‘riddles’ to locate me. Well yeah I played some tricks I moved around sometimes when u were out of sight, whereas some other times I felt u didn’t point out my location at an instance just to make me a happy winner. U were never physically cuddly, but always heart warming. Those round black eyes of urs speak a thousand words. They were so beautiful I almost feel jealous. U taught me what unconditional love means in especially these few months, since u decided to stop eating someday in Dec 2019. It was hell of a journey we had, and u pulled the greatest strength to fight like a warrior. U r freed now, from pain and struggles. Happy birthday to me, and happy rebirth day to u. U, and what u showed me, is the greatest birthday gift of 2020. Today heaven has a new angel. I love u my season baby, forever. ♥
I had more to say but insta limited me to the above. But I guess I could go on for pages and days talking about her, and I’m sure they will come back in fragments. A little bit here, some other bits there, most I’m sure will make me smile thinking back. But I am so proud, so proud that her demeanour wooed even the most fur pet phobic friends of mine. To me, she was and will always be exceptional, truly truly exceptional. Boss is perhaps right, I will be more willing to give now, thanks to her life lessons. Carry our love and run across the rainbow bridge happily and don’t look back my baby, go where angels truly belong to. It’s a complete chapter with the most fulfilling ending, we have no regrets ♥️
1 year and 5 months baby not talking 在 步步Dana Facebook 的最佳貼文
拒絕任何動物表演行為
去泰國不要騎大象看大象表演🐘
(English version below)
前陣子因為朋友阿莫去了趟大象志工,講述了許多故事與知識,覺得非常必須統整起來跟大家分享...(文長)。---at Elephant Nature Park(ENP)
▲簡單的認識是:
不鎖、不勾、不騎、不沖涼、不馬戲
Simple check list for elephants:
NO chain, NO bullhocks, NO ride, NO bath, NO performance
▲兩個關於大象的經歷:
🐘Mae Yu
1984年生
數度被強迫交配、搶走小孩,加上過度工作前腳受傷無法行走整體狀況極差,在被救援後不管大家如何努力她都沒有求生意志... 在嘗試各種方法後,大家決定幫她找回孩子。
非常幸運的,真的在馬戲中找到她的孩子Boi。
在他們相見那天,他們叫喊聲是響遍山谷的,維持許久(工作人員甚至也從沒聽過那樣的叫聲),他們相認相擁。終於Yui恢復進食,狀況才慢慢好轉。
他們真的真的非常幸運...因為被勞役、被拿來娛樂的甚至還有數千隻,他們有許多老了、跛了、瞎了,還有心理出狀況的。
🐘Mae Boonjan
在多次受孕後,最後一次生小孩時因為知道自己的孩子又快要被帶走,讓他想踩死自己的小孩Zuki,被馬戲訓練師制止並帶走。
在多次的打擊和崩潰而精神出了問題的Boonjan,在被救援後也還是無法與其他象和平共處,目前在林中依然獨處孤獨的生活著。
雖然ENP將Zuki找回,但也許因斷奶太久,Boonjan並不太認得自己的小孩,加上Zuki天生的缺陷也讓他不久後就夭折了。
被救援的象並不是免費的,在泰國一隻小象就要200萬泰銖,就算沒有利用價值的老象也要價幾十萬,因為他們還是可以被迫受孕,或奪走象牙、製作皮包.......。
*2/24 經歷更新:
在ENP陸續救援的數十隻象中,大部分都願意重新相信人類,但也會有無法平息苦痛與怒火的象⋯。例如其中一隻已傷害了不少人,在救援後甚至會試圖將靠近柵欄的人捲進去。
⋯過去他在馬戲工作,因選擇反抗而被戳瞎了眼(為了讓他失去方向感而乖乖就範),後來剛烈的他也許帶著赴死決心更強烈的反抗,導致他連左耳都被割下半只,最後被麻醉制服。人們不敢再靠近他,也決定要活活餓死他。
他的怒火,或許帶著超越我們想像的恐懼⋯。
被救援的他還是走來走去、發出尖叫聲、並試圖脫離圍欄。我們能同理,卻也真的無法體會他過去所承受的痛苦。
▲更多的是:
1. 香蕉對大象而言就像人類的甜食,其實吃多了也不好。
2. 大象用氣味辨識人,像聞鞋子、腳。
3. 大象甩耳是為了散熱,因耳朵遍布血管所以散熱快,並幫助身體降溫。
4. 大象有些喜歡玩水,但也有不喜歡的,而且會怕冷。他們喜歡泥巴浴可以保濕、驅蚊,觀光行程中的幫大象洗浴容易導致皮膚乾燥甚至潰爛。
5. 正常的象是有弧度的山丘狀背部,他們的脖子、象鼻強壯,可捲起500kg重物。但象背很脆弱,終年被騎乘下來背部會塌陷,有些甚至會導致膝蓋無法彎曲,連睡覺都要站著。
6. Phajaan儀式,會將象單獨關進一個只能站立的木製牢籠,除了剝奪水和食物外,他們還會不斷撥放噪音讓象保持清醒。
用尖銳的竹籤或釘子刺進他的腳趾、用象勾劃破耳朵。早晨和傍晚還必須被象勾抽打一小時。當象虛弱得無法站立時還會套上繩索勒住他們的頸部。
Phajaan 就是毀壞,摧毀象的意志,讓他們崩潰...再利用恐懼來進行"訓練"。而訓練的每一天都還是持續地被折磨...。
7. 被囚禁的他們運氣好的話一天能喝5-10公升的水(原應是140-200),只有乾棕櫚葉可吃。很多不聽話的象甚至被打斷腿...。
8. 大象強暴:許多象媽媽是被強迫交配的,他們的身心受到極大傷害,甚至一聞或看到公象就會拼命逃跑,但同時因為被鐵鍊鍊住的狀態導致他們臀部塌陷後肢殘障(Bualoi is one of them)。
9. 小象除了爸媽之外還有保母,保母會擔起照顧的責任亦步亦趨。爸媽一定會盡全力保護小象,反抗盜獵者的最後可能就是被殺掉...包括保母,他們才能帶走小象。
10. 被救援的象恢復期可能需要1-2年才能回到[較健康]的狀態,有些甚至在被解開鐵鍊時會強烈驚慌害怕到尿失禁,有人靠近就會要自己舌頭,也完全不敢進食⋯。
*2/28更新:
Ploy Thong 雙眼失明,估計約30歲,他於泰國芭堤雅待了16年,日復一日從大早到日落的載著遊客,用象鼻嗅探方向。在更早之前也曾待在馬戲團中。
在解救Bua Keaw時大象基金會的志工注意到Ploy的痛苦而與他的主人進行談判,終於去年(20180203)被ENP營救。到達象園的他發出低沈的聲音,吸引了在不遠叢林中的象群,他們都紛紛趕上前去迎接他,大家用象鼻親切的撫摸這隻盲象,象鼻纏繞著彼此。猜想他必定永遠不會忘記新家庭成員們的溫暖。(如有興趣可關鍵字搜尋Ploy Thong,此段有影片紀錄)
▲小插曲:
隔著一條河,位在ENP對面的即是以營利為目的的象營。可以看到他們一天到河邊洗了好多次澡,皮膚脆弱乾燥常常有傷口。那的象伕腰間掛著長勾,讓大象學人的姿勢坐下跪下以方便大家拍照,最後再讓他們騎上他的背,一次幾百塊。
阿莫問了ENP的工作人員:「難道都沒有大象逃跑過來嗎?」
他說:「幾個月前有一隻小象逃了過來,當時所有大象都停下動作,並走向這個孩子。
但很快的,他就被對面的公司捉回去了。當晚對面的河岸邊傳來小象的哭喊尖叫,而接下來的一個禮拜他都沒有再出來載客。(通常會被關在籠中防止逃跑,禁食挨餓,也免不了毒打)
那晚,園裏的大象們到了睡覺時間依然躁動、議論著、很不平靜。大家心裡也都十分難受卻都無能為力,因為一隻小象要價上百萬,而救援清單中還有200多隻狀況更緊急及情況更糟的大象們⋯。
除了希望大家把資訊傳遞出去外,也能一起祈求這隻小象、及其他還在受傷害的象們都能被更善待、被釋放,回歸自由與平安。
*象園中的大象們很多在ENP中有詳盡記錄,如果想認識他們也能到網站上搜尋,或想參與志工也能聯繫:www.elephantnaturepark.org
▲Two elephants experiences
🐘Mae Yui
''Mae Yui was the first elephant we rescued for this project. At that time, she was emotionally very ill. No matter how hard we tried to treat her wounds, she didn’t care. No willingness to thrive.
Mae Yui was forced to mate for three times and each time, her babies were taken away by the mahouts to undergo "Phajaan". Last time afterwards, she refused to work. That’s why the previous owner sold Mae Yui.
Fortunately, ENP actually found Mae Boi, the young baby of Mae Yui.
When Mae Yui and Mae Boi reunited. The moment they saw each other, they were roaring so loud, for so long. Anyone who heard that can deeply understand elephants are highly sentimental animals.
Once her baby Mae Boi returned, Mae Yui recovered shortly.''
🐘Mae Boonjan
The past of Mae Boonjan was as tragic as Mae Yui. She has been forced to breed for a few times in the industry (conventional practice). When she gave birth to her last baby Zuki, she knew the trainer would come and take it away soon. Or maybe Zuki was born disable - Mae Boonjan decided to kill her own baby.
And of course her mahout won’t let her do that (commercial considerations) – he stopped her and took away Zuki. Later ENP also rescued Zuki. However they separated for too long and Mae Boonjan could hardly remember Zuki. They didn’t make the bonding again. Since Zuki was born with defects, it died soon.
Mae Boonjan didn’t go along well with the group. She prefers to roam around on her own, quietly in the jungle.
The rescued elephant are not for free. In Thailand, a baby elephant will cost 2 million baht. Even if the old elephant without value is worth hundreds of thousands, they can still be forced to conceive, or take away ivory or make leather bags. ....
*2/24 update:
Among the dozens of elephants rescued by ENP, most are willing to believe in human beings again, but there are also some that can not calm the pain and anger... For example, one of them has hurt many people, even tried to involve people who near the fence after rescue.
In the past, he worked in a circus and was stabbed blind for choosing to resist (he was obedient in order to make him lose his sense of direction). Later, he might have the determination to die, and resist even stronger, which led to his left ear being cut off, and the end he was overcome by anesthesia. People were afraid to be closer any more and decided to starve him to death.
His anger, perhaps with more fear than we can imagine...
Now he was still walking around, screaming and trying to get out of the fence. We can understand, but never can really feel the pain he has experienced in the past.
▲ More is:
1. Bananas for elephants are like our sweets.
2. Elephants use smell to identify people, like shoes and feet.
3. Elephant's ear is for heat dissipation. Because the ear is spread over the blood vessels, it dissipates heat fast, helps body cool down.
4. Depends on different personality, some of elephants love playing in water, some not, also, they are afraid of cold. They love mud baths to moisturize and repel mosquitoes. “Elephant bath” for tourist can easily lead to dry skin and even ulceration.
5. The normal elephant back is a curved hill-shaped. Their neck and trunk are strong and able to roll up 500 kg. However, the back is very fragile. When be riding all the year round, elephant's back will collapse. Some will even cause their knees unable to bend, that they can only stand sleep.
6. The Phajaan ceremony will separate the elephant into a wooden cage that can only stand. In addition to depriving water and food, they will continue to release noise to keep the elephant awake.
Use a sharp bamboo stick or nail to puncture elephant's toes and use bullhock to cut ears. Be beaten for one hour every morning and evening. When elephants are too weak to stand, they will put on the ropes to hold their necks.
Phajaan means ''destroying'', destroying elephant's mind, letting them collapse... so they can "train" them by fear. And training is still being tortured...
7. If they are lucky, they can drink 5-10 liters of water a day (it should be 140-200), and only dry palm leaves can eat. Many of the disobedient elephants even had their legs broken.... (Bualoi is one of them)
8. Many mothers are forced to mate, their body and mind are greatly hurt, when they smell or see the male elephant, they will straight run hard, but at the same time, because of the chained state, their hips collapse and hind limbs are disabled.
9. In addition to the parents, the baby elephant has a babysitter, and the babysitter will take responsibility for the care. Parents will do their best to protect family. The last thing to fight the poachers is to be killed...including the babysitter, so poachers can take baby elephant away.
10. The recovery period of the rescued elephants may take 1-2 years to return to a [healthier] state, and some will be super terrified when the chain is untied.
*2/28 Update:
Ploy Thong, blind, around 30 years old, spent 16 years in Pattaya, Thailand, taking tourists day in and day out from dawn to sunset, sniffing directions with his trunk. He had been in the circus before.
In rescuing Bua Keaw, elephant foundation volunteers noticed Ploy's suffering, so they negotiated with his owner. Finally, Ploy was rescued by ENP last year (20180203). When he arrived the park, he made a low voice, which attracted the elephants in the forest not far away. They all came up to meet him. They caressed the blind elephant with their trunks and wrapped them around each other. Guess he would never forget the warmth of his new family. (if you are interested, please search keyword Ploy Thong, this section has a video recorded.)
▲ Episode:
Across the river, opposite ENP, is a profit elephant camp. You can see elephants showering many times a day by the river, their skin weak, dry and with cuts. And man with a long hook around his waist, he let elephants knelt down like human so that everyone could take pictures, then let them ride on his back (hundreds of dollars at a time).
Amor asked the ENP staff: "Didn’t any of the elephants escape?"
"A few months ago there was a baby elephant run away, that time all the elephants stopped and went to the baby," he said.
But soon, he was caught back. That night the baby elephant screamed and cried loud across the river, and he did not come out to take any passengers for a week. (they were often kept in cages to prevent escape, starved them, fasted and beaten)
That night, the elephants were still restless, and talking at bedtime. There's nothing we can do for it, because a baby elephant costs millions of dollars, and there are more than 200 elephants on the rescue list who were in more urgent or worse conditions...
In addition to hoping that everyone can pass on the information, please also pray for this baby elephant and other who injured, to be treated better, released, and return to freedom and peace.
* Many elephants in the ENP have detailed records, if you want to participate in the volunteer or knowing these elephants please do search or contact: www.elephantnaturepark.org