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Oh yes, if you are reading this, be anything you want to be and let people be anything they want. I mean, we are so quick to project our ideas on others and judge them based on that. It's funny how we want our freedom to do anything but forms judgemental opinions on others based on theirs.
Be nice. Be kind. Be supportive.
Not only to yourselves but to others too.
Happy Wednesday(weekend is almost here 👻)
10 CARA MENJADI WANITA MATANG.
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1. Kurang Bercakap Dan Lebih Mendengar.
Wanita matang lebih banyak mendengar dari bercakap.
Secara semulajadinya kita dilahirkan dengan sepasang telinga dan hanya satu mulut dan lidah sahaja...
"A silent voice" kadang lebih kuat dari ketika kita bersuara.
Dan anda mungkin tak perasan, namun orang yang paling diam di dalam sebuah bilik adalah orang yang paling "loud" and could be the most "powerful" person too!
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2. Tidak Berborak Kosong.
Wanita matang tidak berborak kosong. Tetapi lebih suka untuk membicarakan perkara yang mendatangkan faedah. Berbincang tentang tajuk yang intelektual.
Tidak punya waktu untuk berbahas dengan orang yang tidak bersetuju dengan tindakan mereka.
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3. Belajar dari kesilapan.
Wanita matang akan sentiasa belajar dari kesilapan. Mereka tidak akan mengulangi kesilapan yang sama dalam hidup.
Tidak takut untuk mengakui kesilapan diri. Malah mudah untuk meminta maaf.
Untuk menjadi saya hari ini, saya juga telah melakukan banyak kesilapan dalam hidup. Namun kita perlu memaafkan diri kita. Meninggalkan hal yang tidak perlu. Berdamai dengan masa silam. Dan move on ok!
Usah kata...
"Aku tak sepatutnya kahwin pada usia muda.." (contohnya). Kerana setiap apa yang berlaku pasti akan ada hikmahnya.
Kita bukanlah diri kita hari ini tanpa melalui segala kesilapan dalam hidup! Ucapkan terima kasih kepada masa silam kita.
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4. Lebih Mudah Untuk Memaafkan
Wanita matang adalah orang yang lebih tenang dan mudah memaafkan. Nothing really matter in this world.
Menyimpan dendam adalah sangat meletihkan minda. Ianya sungguh tidak perlu. Anda akan jadi lebih bahagia apabila dapat memaafkan dengan mudah.
Jadi wanita yang tidak mudah untuk disakiti ok!
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5. Tidak Memaksa Cinta
Owh yes! Wanita matang tidak akan memaksa cinta. Tidak mengejar cinta yang tidak berbalas. Tidak membuang masa untuk berharap kepada orang yang tidak membalas cinta mereka.
Anda akan tahu bagaimana rasa cinta yang sebenar bila orang yang benar-benar cintakan anda hadir dalam hidup.
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6. Anda Terima Takdir Dengan Hati Terbuka
Samada ujian yang datang itu kecil... Sekecil-kecil seperti sakit kepala ataupun berat seperti terpaksa berdepan dengan perpisahan yang amat menyakitkan dalam hidup.
Anda sekarang lebih menerima takdir yang sedang anda lalui dan mengendalikannya dengan rahmat serta pengertian dan ketenangan berbanding dahulu.
Yakin bahawa setiap apa yang berlaku dengan izin Allah adalah yang paling baik sekali. Walaupun kita mungkin berasa ianya sangat sukar hinggakan terpaksa menangis begitu lama!
Sedih dan sakit itu biasa. Namun dengan kematangan kita akan dapat membersihkan "luka" itu sendiri. Bangkit semula tanpa menyalahkan sesiapa.
Not easy, but just keep going....
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7. Tidak Mudah Menghakimi
Tidak judgemental apa lagi buruk sangka terhadap orang lain dengan mudah. Sentiasa melihat kebaikan pada setiap orang.
Wanita yang matang sangat merendah diri. Hebat mana pun kita, usah sesekali pandang hina terhadap orang lain. Kerana segala apa yang kita miliki adalah berupa pinjaman sahaja.
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8. Lebih Suka Berdiam Dari Bertengkar Yang Tidak Membawa Kepada Kebaikan
Wanita yang matang akan tahu bahawa bertengkar untuk perkara yang tidak perlu adalah sia-sia. Jika tidak ada kata-kata yang baik, diam itu adalah lebih baik.
Jangan dengar yang tak perlu di dengar.
Jangan lihat yang tak perlu dilihat.
Jangan bicara yang tak perlu dibicara.
Do not react to negativity.
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9. Tahu Bahawa Bahagia Itu Tidak Di tangan Orang Lain
Wanita matang tidak akan berharap kepada orang lain untuk menjadi bahagia. Cukup hanya Allah. Berharap kepada manusia akan membawa kecewa.
La Tahzan
Jangan bersedih.
Wanita matang yang kuat adalah yang sering tersenyum ketika dalam ujian. Sentiasa redha dan berlapang dada.
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10. Bersolat 5 Waktu
Kerana wanita yang matang tahu, solat itu kunci bahagia. Menangis tidak kepada manusia lagi. Tetapi hanya kepada Allah yang Esa.
Wanita matang tidak meminta kepada manusia. Tetapi bersujud dan memohon kepada Allah sahaja.
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Kredit - Dzuriasikim Dzulkefli
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📌 10 CARA MENJADI WANITA MATANG.
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1. Kurang Bercakap Dan Lebih Mendengar.
...Continue Reading📌 10 WAYS TO BE A MATANG WOMAN.
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1. Less Talk And More Listening.
Mature women listen more than talk.
Naturally we are born with a pair of ears and only one mouth and tongue...
′′ A silent voice ′′ is sometimes stronger than when we speak.
And you may not notice, but the most silent person in a room is the most ′′ loud ′′ person and could be the most ′′ powerful ′′ person too!
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2. No Empty Talk.
Mature women don't talk empty. But prefer to talk about things that benefit. Talking about an intellectual title.
Don't have time to debate with people who disagree with their actions.
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3. Learn from mistakes.
Mature women will always learn from mistakes. They will not repeat the same mistakes in life.
Not afraid to admit self mistakes. It's even easy to apologize.
To be me today, I have also made many mistakes in life. Yet we need to forgive ourselves. Leaving the unnecessary thing. Make peace with the past. And move on ok!
Don't say...
′′ I shouldn't marry a young age.." (e. g). Because everything that happens will surely have a blessing.
We are not ourselves today without all mistakes in life! Thank you to our past.
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4. Is Easier To Forgive
A mature woman is a calmer person and easy to forgive. Nothing really matter in this world.
Keeping a grudge is so blurred. It's so unnecessary. You will be happier when you can easily forgive.
Be a woman who is not easy to get hurt ok!
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5. Not Forcing Love
Owh yes! Mature women will not force love. Not chasing unrequited love. Don't waste time hoping for people who don't repay their love.
You will know how true love feels when the person who truly loves you comes in life.
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6. You Receive Destiny With Open Heart
Whether the test that comes is small... As small as a headache or heavy as having to face a very painful breakup in life.
You are now more accepting the destiny you are going through and handling it with grace and understanding and calmness than ever before.
Confident that everything that happens with Allah's permission is the best ever. Although we may feel it's so hard to have to cry for so long!
Sad and sick is ordinary. However with maturity we will be able to clean the ′′ wound ′′ itself. Rise again without blaming anyone.
Not easy, but just keep going....
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7. Not Easy to Judge
Not judgemental, what else is worse, thought of others easily. Always see the good in everyone.
Mature women are very humble. No matter how great we are, never underestimate others. Because everything we have is just a loan.
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8. Would Rather Be Silent Than A Fight That Doesn't Lead To Goodness
Mature women will know that fighting for unnecessary things is useless. If there are no kind words, silence is better.
Don't listen to what you don't need to
Don't look at the unnecessary.
Don't talk unnecessary talk.
Do not react to negativity.
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9. Know That Happiness Is Not In Other People's Hands
Mature women will not wish others to be happy. Enough only Allah. Hoping for humans will bring disappointment.
The Tahzan
Do not be sad.
Strong mature women are the ones who often smile during the test. Always accept and have a heart.
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10. Praying 5 Time
Because mature women know, prayer is the key to happiness. Crying not to humans anymore. But only to Allah the One.
Mature women don't ask man. But kneeling and asking for Allah alone.
Credits: the imperfections
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Based on Koujee's true story.
Sneezer draws inspiration from Koujee's very own life experiences. "I have experienced countless ups and downs for the past 10 years. I've gone through and seen many betrayals of trust and friendship over the years. I feel the need to make a stand and address this issue that I've been battling with. After 2 years of silence, I've decided to turn this life experience into this MV, calling on the society to be responsible with their words", Koujee said.
The MV features two prominent characters which are the "Ghossiper" and “Queen Of Whisperer" to express the consequence of spreading false rumours.
"Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see."
"Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools, and accepted by idiots."
来自于真实故事。
Koujee表示，此作品的灵感来自于生活。“出道10年，经历过无数的风风雨雨，看着自己或朋友曾经面对过的被背叛和伤害事件，让我觉得应该站出来，向社会反映这件事。沉寂了2年后，我决定把经历化为作品，呼吁社会停止散播谣言和巅倒是非。”
MV的音乐和画面含盖了许多暗示性表达⼿法，特别设计了“是非精” (Ghossiper) 以及“是非⼥王”(Queen Of Whisperer) 两个角⾊，用来表达谣⾔的恐怖性。你也可以在MV里看到Koujee亲自创作的绘画作品。
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Sneezer Lyrics:
"Have you ever wonder
dusk and flu are not the only reason that causes you to sneeze
There is one more. . ."
啊气
我没有伤风感冒
啊气
是否又被无理取闹
Check 1 2 走投无路
被人搞得糊涂
所以我创出江湖
We born to communicate
We educate
With da certificate
And yet So?
Proving everybody
Or fooling everybody
Living in this society
And yet so?
Play fair?
Think out of the square
Climb up the stairs look clearly if you dare
Look around you who's around you success or not depend who's around you
散播谣言 散播谎言
自导自演
简直一派 胡言
满口谎言 贪得无厌
打马虎眼
他妈的 讨厌
缺德的钱奴才 自欺欺人
博取众人的 信任
获得 权力 地位
刻薄他人
炫耀权威
I dont know what you did to get them boosted
I dont know what you did to make them lose it
Who the hell are you
What the hell are you
Time will reveal the true you
Its ok ignored me
Im just a somebody fak u bic
啊气
是谁说你坏话
啊气
到底是谁说你坏话
Check 1 2 走投无路
被人搞得糊涂
所以我创出江湖
反口覆舌 变化无穷
信用 是何物也
暗箭中人 出口伤人
Feeling it oh yeah
前后 一个样
面具款式 各种各样
Faking for the the rest of ya life
ya think is really nice?
我的背后 渐渐插着那么多的箭
暗里度过的夜 是否让我 学会了奸
别怪我无情 这痛 痛的不只一天
痛得不再有感觉 仿佛 我成了仙
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Eyes on a wheelchair
Judgemental mindset
Feed with the illusion facts
Acts speak louder
Or the words speak louder?
Do you really care one another?
fulfilling the role of an elder?
顶, 神又是你 鬼又是你
Seriously, I don't give a FART! Ops..
Nah, I didn't curse with the word fuck.
Oh fuck I just did it..
Oh yea, me as a fucking believer and a fucking educator, I shouldn't use the word fuck,
Yea right, you fucking hypocrite are too fucking free to fuck people around, repent your sins before is too late mother fuckers!
啊气
我没有伤风感冒
啊气
是否又被无理取闹
Check 1 2 走投无路
被人搞得糊涂
所以我创出江湖
啊气
是不是你说我坏话
啊气
怎么你又说我坏话
Check 1 2 走投无路
被人搞得糊涂
所以我创出江湖
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KOUJEE EDUTAINMENT Present
Director KOUJEE | Writer KOUJEE | Film Producer KOUJEE | Video Editing KOUJEE | Video Colouring KOUJEE | Character Design KOUJEE | Art KOUJEE | Album Design KOUJEE | Music Composing KOUJEE | Lyrics KOUJEE | Record Producer BROO PRODUCTION |
Cast KOUJEE as Koujee | DEEKA as Back Packer | MARVIN as Ghossiper 1 | SIMON as Ghossiper 2 | FEEDER as Ghossiper 3 | JUN LEONG as Ghossiper 4 | POOI YAN as Whisperer | HUIBY NGAN as Aunty 1 | OLIVIA ONG as Aunty 2 | SARAH SHU as High Schooler | SAMUEL CHER as Blinded Man 1 | VICTOR TONG as Blinded Man 2 | HUIBY as Blinded Woman 1 | SANDRA BOON as Blinded Woman 2 | TEDDY / GATSBY as Koujee's Cat | Photography CASH STUDIO | Production Design KOUJEE EDUTAINMENT | Image Consultant FAYE LAI | | Videoed by DAVE CHAN/ VICTOR TONG/SAMUEL CHER/ ANDREW LEE/ SANDRA BOON | Koujee's MakeUp & Hair Do FAYE LAI | Ghossiper's MakeUp FAYE LAI | Whisperer's MakeUp SHAN SHAN | Koujee's Hair Sponsor S KONCEPT HAIRZON / WAJASS | Venue by CUPCAT IMAGE / MEGA STAR ARENA | Dance by MUSTANG DANCE ACADEMY/ ORI'BOND DANCE BOXX STUDIO | Props Team KOUJEE / FAYE LAI | Spiderman Mask MK Tong | Floor Manager SAMUEL CHER | Floor Assistant SARAH SHU | F&B Sponsor GARAGE 51 | Printing Sponsor SINCERE SERVICE GROUP |
