【自杀並非解脫】
SUICIDE WILL NEVER BE THE END
我手頭上處理過好些女客人因為老公外遇,而悲痛萬分想自殺,有些甚至自殺過幾次但都失敗。
她們都說,被相愛多年的老公背叛,人生已失去意義,不懂如何活下去,要一死了之。
我問,孩子怎麼辦?
她們說老公很愛孩子,一定會照顧的。
不要笨啦,會愛孩子就不會偷吃了。
我還開玩笑說:「幸好你沒死,要不然我這個Zoom視訊不可以安排在白天了,得半夜十二點後Zoom到地府去找你,還得跟你算OT!」
我盡我能力在那有限的時間內,開導客人,指引她們一條明路。
我也是女人,怎麼會不懂被曾發誓會與我長相廝守的伴侶背叛的痛呢?
客人哭著跟我喊:自己的人生如此失敗,不懂自己還能給予孩子什麼。
你不要去死,就能夠教導你的女兒和兒子們,一個女人活下去該有的自信和膽識了。
我的影片當中,談愛情婚姻的流量是較低的,但有觀眾把這些影片分享給在痛苦中的親朋好友。也因為如此,我拍片從來不以流量為第一考量,而是到底能不能夠幫到人。
自殺並非解脫,改次我拍支影片,談談這類三角關係的因因果果。
還有,姐妹們,跳樓自殺的鬼,體無完膚,樣子真的真的很難看,我當真沒在騙你。
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I have handled many cases of female clients whose husbands committed infidelity. My clients were in so much grief and pain that they either intended to or have attempted to commit suicide several times but failed.
They said the same thing. That having been betrayed by the man whom they deeply loved, their lives had lost all significance and they no longer know how to continue living.
I asked what would happen to their children?
They would replied that the husband loved the kids and would take care of them.
Don’t be stupid. If he had truly loved them, he would not have cheated.
I would also joke, “Lucky you didn’t die, otherwise my Zoom call cannot be scheduled in the day time. I will have to go to hell to find you for our Zoom call, and must be after midnight. Then I must charge you for overtime work!”
I tried my best to comfort and guide the client onto a clear path, in the limited time we have.
I am also a woman. How will I not understand the excruciating pain of being betrayed by the man who had taken the vows to be with me “till death do us part”?
The client cried and shouted, “My life is such a failure. What do I have to give to my children?”
As long as you don’t go and die, you will be teaching your daughters and sons the confidence and courage a woman can have.
Among my many videos, those on topics of love and marriage have lower views. Yet there are audience who share these videos with their family and friends who are experiencing such agony in their personal lives.
This is why I never decide on a topic based on viewership. I decide based on whether it can help people.
Suicide isn’t liberation. Next time I will do a video that talks about the karmic implications of such love triangles.
And by the way, sisters, ghosts who committed suicide by jumping down really really look ugly with their broken limbs and open wounds. I am not kidding you.
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2,480的網紅玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu,也在其Youtube影片中提到,【真佛密法的實證】(English version below) 1999年農曆八月十五早上七點,我皈依了聖尊蓮生活佛。今天是我的二十歲生日。 回顧這些自己在,時光的洪流中,隨着業力掙扎蛻變的照片,由衷的感恩,吾之根本傳承上師,聖尊蓮生活佛,大慈大悲的救渡,讓吾在這一世,還能聽聞甚深的佛法,且還...
the path to liberation 在 國際狗語日報 X 百靈果News Facebook 的最讚貼文
"A closer look reveals that Taiwan’s success containing Covid-19 can be explained by the unique historical contingencies that have shaped this young nation. Taiwan’s self-confidence and collective solidarity trace back to its triumphal self-liberation from its own authoritarian past, its ability to thrive in the shadow of a massive, hostile neighbor that refuses to recognize its right to chart its own path, and its track record of learning from existential threats."
更深入觀察後發現,臺灣能成功地對抗武漢病毒,是源於塑形這個年輕國度的獨特歷史背景。臺灣的自信與團結來自於:能從原先獨裁政權成功解放,能在一個強大、敵對、拒絕承認臺灣權利的鄰邦陰影下走出自己的路,能從現存的威脅中學習成長。
the path to liberation 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的最讚貼文
【真佛密法的實證】(English version below)
1999年農曆八月十五早上七點,吾皈依了聖尊蓮生活佛。今天是吾的二十歲生日。
回顧這些自己在,時光的洪流中,隨着業力掙扎蛻變的照片,由衷的感恩,吾之根本傳承上師,聖尊蓮生活佛,大慈大悲的救渡,讓吾在這一世,還能聽聞甚深的佛法,且還能修習完整的密法,眞的是佛恩浩大啊!
祂也讓吾明白,佛經中述及的不可思議。從祂的傳法中,祂教會吾什麼是慈悲,什麼是勇猛精進,什麼是長養菩提心,如何從俗走向聖,如何截斷欲望的洪流,次第淺進的明心見性、自主生死、還本帰元。
爲了报达佛恩於萬一,吾願意以過去不堪入目的醜態,來證明眞佛密法,的实在修持,眞的能够讓吾等眾生,由濁到淨,永斷生死苦海,徹底的解脫,還本帰元。
玳瑚師父YOUTUBE頻道:
🚩 https://youtu.be/8aGUlNceRsc
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On the 15th day of the 8th Lunar Month, at 7am, I took refuge in His Holiness Living Buddha. Today is my 20th birthday.
As I reminisced over these photographs, and witnessed my karmic metamorphosis over the passage of time, I am deeply grateful to my Root Guru, His Holiness Living Buddha Lian Sheng, for His greatly compassionate salvation, such that in this lifetime of mine, I can hear the profound Dharma and study and practice a complete tantric Dharma practice. This is truly great grace from the Buddha!
He also enlightens me on the inconceivables in the Buddhist sutras. In His Dharma propagation, He had taught me what is compassion, courage and diligence and what it means to cultivate Bodhicitta for long. He also showed me how to walk the Path of Transformation from a mortal to a sage. He imparts Dharma wisdom on how to end the continuous deluge of mortal desires, and advance on the path to Enlightenment in sequence, gain autonomy in birth and death and returning to Source.
In order to repay the Buddha’s Grace, I am most willing to disclose my ugly self of the past and be the living proof that the True Buddha Tantric Practices thoroughly transformed me, from turbidity to purity, giving me salvation from the suffering Sea of Life and Death. A thorough liberation, a return to Source.
#20yearchallenge
WATCH IT ON YOUTUBE:
🚩 https://youtu.be/8aGUlNceRsc
the path to liberation 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Youtube 的最佳解答
【真佛密法的實證】(English version below)
1999年農曆八月十五早上七點,我皈依了聖尊蓮生活佛。今天是我的二十歲生日。
回顧這些自己在,時光的洪流中,隨着業力掙扎蛻變的照片,由衷的感恩,吾之根本傳承上師,聖尊蓮生活佛,大慈大悲的救渡,讓吾在這一世,還能聽聞甚深的佛法,且還能修習完整的密法,眞的是佛恩浩大啊!
祂也讓吾明白,佛經中述及的不可思議。從祂的傳法中,祂教會吾什麼是慈悲,什麼是勇猛精進,什麼是長養菩提心,如何從俗走向聖,如何截斷欲望的洪流,次第淺進的明心見性、自主生死、還本帰元。
爲了报达佛恩於萬一,吾願意以過去不堪入目的醜態,來證明眞佛密法,的实在修持,眞的能够讓吾等眾生,由濁到淨,永斷生死苦海,徹底的解脫,還本帰元。
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On the 15th day of the 8th Lunar Month, at 7am, I took refuge in His Holiness Living Buddha. Today is my 20th birthday.
As I reminisced over these photographs, and witnessed my karmic metamorphosis over the passage of time, I am deeply grateful to my Root Guru, His Holiness Living Buddha Lian Sheng, for His greatly compassionate salvation, such that in this lifetime of mine, I can hear the profound Dharma and study and practice a complete tantric Dharma practice. This is truly great grace from the Buddha!
He also enlightens me on the inconceivables in the Buddhist sutras. In His Dharma propagation, He had taught me what is compassion, courage and diligence and what it means to cultivate Bodhicitta for long. He also showed me how to walk the Path of Transformation from a mortal to a sage. He imparts Dharma wisdom on how to end the continuous deluge of mortal desires, and advance on the path to Enlightenment in sequence, gain autonomy in birth and death and returning to Source.
In order to repay the Buddha’s Grace, I am most willing to disclose my ugly self of the past and be the living proof that the True Buddha Tantric Practices thoroughly transformed me, from turbidity to purity, giving me salvation from the suffering Sea of Life and Death. A thorough liberation, a return to Source.