關於 outgoing opposite ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Whoever that says the middle child character is quiet or even-tempered.. try mine. 🤪

Among all the 4 kids, Xin He has the strongest character, not shy, outgoing and wild. She may have some of my character, and I do believe her birth sign does contribute to her character.

More often, people said that #middlechild are being neglected, hence they know how to observe adult's body language and behave. I think mine is like the opposite, she does not care, and she always put up the best of herself to the outsiders (teachers excluded, ahem.. I'm so sorry to the teachers 🙇‍♀️).

But with her being neglected, that was not entirely true. After 1 year of IFC, I withdrew her out and brought her to work everyday. But, when business wasn't very good & I was so stressed, I neglected the 2 girls. Soon, Yi He was having health condition, my whole mind is focused on her.
So, I have to leave Xin He alone with the helper while I keep Yi He with me, accompanying her for hospital visits, even when she was admitted. It got worst after Didi's arrival as I have to bring Didi along during Yi He hospital visit. So, my energy is focused mainly on Yi He and Didi.

Xin He was also forced to grow up and stay strong for her eldest sister because she always encourages and act as a strong pillar for Yi He when she had her injection and during the days when she had side effects.

As for favouritism, we don't practise that:
- During quarrels, all parties involved will be scolded (after finding out the cause), because you can't clap with 1 hand.
- When buy things, I have to buy x4
- When 1 don't have party / photoshoot / toys, all don't have
- When 1 has fallen sick, the whole house eat porridge, so everyone have to play a part to keep ourselves healthy and safe.. if you don't want to eat 1-2 weeks of porridge 😏

She's wild, she's outgoing, she's cute, she love to draw and she love to piss her parents and teachers - That's my 2nd child - Xin He.

对她永远都是多一份心疼，可是每次给她气到一命呼呼。。
#qiqiparentingsharing

Whoever that says the middle child character is quiet or even-tempered.. try mine. 🤪

Among all the 4 kids, Xin He has the strongest character, not shy, outgoing and wild. She may have some of my character, and I do believe her birth sign does contribute to her character.

More often, people said that #middlechild are being neglected, hence they know how to observe adult's body language and behave. I think mine is like the opposite, she does not care, and she always put up the best of herself to the outsiders (teachers excluded, ahem.. I'm so sorry to the teachers 🙇‍♀️).

But with her being neglected, that was not entirely true. After 1 year of IFC, I withdrew her out and brought her to work everyday. But, when business wasn't very good & I was so stressed, I neglected the 2 girls. Soon, Yi He was having health condition, my whole mind is focused on her.
So, I have to leave Xin He alone with the helper while I keep Yi He with me, accompanying her for hospital visits, even when she was admitted. It got worst after Didi's arrival as I have to bring Didi along during Yi He hospital visit. So, my energy is focused mainly on Yi He and Didi.

Xin He was also forced to grow up and stay strong for her eldest sister because she always encourages and act as a strong pillar for Yi He when she had her injection and during the days when she had side effects.

As for favouritism, we don't practise that:
- During quarrels, all parties involved will be scolded (after finding out the cause), because you can't clap with 1 hand.
- When buy things, I have to buy x4
- When 1 don't have party / photoshoot / toys, all don't have
- When 1 has fallen sick, the whole house eat porridge, so everyone have to play a part to keep ourselves healthy and safe.. if you don't want to eat 1-2 weeks of porridge 😏

She's wild, she's outgoing, she's cute, she love to draw and she love to piss her parents and teachers - That's my 2nd child - Xin He.

对她永远都是多一份心疼，可是每次给她气到一命呼呼。。
#qiqiparentingsharing

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- Japan is an awesome place to visit, and no one should let "rules" get in the way of that! But Japanese culture can be very different to what we're used to at times, and some things we do that may be acceptable for us can be surprising and rude in Japan. My husband, Jun, and I put together a list of the most common things we see that can cause trouble (I speak from the perspective of having done all of these!) Mainly, this is if you plan on establishing yourself in a Japanese community through work/family--if you're visiting as a tourist then you don't really have to worry so much about it. :)

As a foreigner you won't be held to the same standards as Japanese people, but if you want to give a really good impression then these are some guidelines you can follow! None of these are things you HAVE to do. They are ideals and not always the followed practice. I just always think it's better to know the ideal standards and then you can choose how closely you want to follow them!

Rule of thumb: Just think about how your words and actions will affect the people around you before you do something! It's as simple as that. :)

Useful Japanese phrase: shouganai (しょうがない) - It can't be helped.

It's pretty similar to "shit happens." You're essentially letting a bad situation slide off your back instead of internalizing it.

FAQ:

"Can I still listen to music/text on the train/bus?"
Yes--sorry I wasn't clear. I meant only making a call on your phone. You won't be strange or rude at all if other people can't hear what you're doing!

"So you can't be outgoing in Japan?"
Of course you can! Sorry for being unclear on this, too. By "don't be emotional" I meant negative emotions. Everyone loves happy people! And some places it's perfectly fine to be loud--just take your cue from the people around you. :)

"So I shouldn't go to Japan? I'll stand out anywhere."
Again, sorry for being unclear! Yeah, foreigners are going to stand out, period. Mainly I meant through actions and not looks, but even then Japanese people don't expect foreigners to know their customs so it's fine to make mistakes! I've done EVERYTHING in this video (and still do some of them), which is why I wanted to talk about it in the first place!

"What about customizing food if I have allergies?"
A lot of restaurants list common allergens on their menus. If you're not sure you can always ask! And you can always ask to see if they'll customize your order--it's just never worked for me.

"Do I have to talk like a robot like you? :( "
No, I just suck at public speaking.（° ▽ °;）We had like maybe a dozen subscribers when I made this video and never expected it to get so much attention. I had no idea how it would end up being perceived and if I could do it again so I didn't sound so "strict" or "uptight" or scare people off from Japan then I would in a heartbeat! My new videos are less crappy. Sorry! :(

For the opposite perspective: "What not to do in America" for Japanese people - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tYCQ661FII

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