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A Tower and A Man
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I’ve spent most of the time staying at home after getting back from Nepal. During this moment, I wanna stop posting any content here because I didn’t have any mood to do it. Also, my girl is suffering from the current situation in Italy. I really worry about her (FYI: we have a relationship with long distance). After that, I realised that I should have positive thinking! Depression can’t save anything. Just do whatever I can! When the situation has passed, we can see each other again.
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long distance relationship depression 在 Ramona Zamzam Facebook 的最讚貼文
‼️ STOP ASKING "BILA NAK ADA BABY" ‼️
K dah nak raya kannnn.
Dlm post ni Ramona cuma nak spread the awareness of : STOP asking people "BILA NAK ADA BABY?"
Lately Ramona buat Q&A sessions on Instagram and ada la sorg ni minta pendapat mcm mana nak handle rasa sedih bila org keep on asking bila nak pregnant.
I have no idea how these people boleh terfikir nak tanya Ramona soalan2 mcm tu sbb Ramona sendiri tak penah alami situasi tersebut, but i tried my best to comfort her, from a woman to another woman. Maka Ramona pun jawab lah berjela2, dan selepas jawapan tersebut di-upload, ramai pulak yg confess perkara yg sama and some of them even replied me saying that my answer actually made them CRY. Sedih but at the same time I was touched, reading some of them punya replies, so Ramona pun terfikir lah nak buat post ni.
I don't understand why can't we be more civilized? You'll never know what a person is going through / just went through. Even worse, most people yg suka tanya soalan tu datang daripada geng2 makcik2 (based on diorg2 yg cite kat Ramona lah). I'm like... Ya Allah makcik, umur dah tua, kubur dah panggil, dah2 la sakitkan hati org. Fine, maybe some of those makcik2 happened to ask out of 'excitement'. But still, kalau dah berulang kali dok tanya tak henti2, tu bukan excited dah, tu menyibuk / nak memerli. Please, spread this, stop this. Lets not let this go on and on in our culture, sedih la.
I have met some of my friends yg berjaya dapat baby lepas tunggu 3,5,6 tahun / lepas berjaya buat IVF. But I have also met those yg dah cuba mcm2 tapi masih belum pregnant. These people are always down, bila2 nak jumpa org pun jadi takut / risau, this will end up leading these people to depression tau. Kita rasa mcm soalan "Bila Nak Ada Baby?" tu simple je, but pernah terfikir tak how it might affect some people ke tahap yg sgt teruk? No, we don't. All we do is main lepas je apa nak ckp, apa nak tanya. Please, DON'T.
Sini Ramona screenshot kan conversations some of the women yg masih belum pregnant reply apa kat Ramona. Korang baca sendiri. See, ada sorang tu dah la jarang dpt jumpa husband, before kawin long distance relationship. Imagine kawan dia sorg lama tak jumpa skali pegi tanya soalan mcm tu, gila tak nangis. Anyway, I don't wanna make this too long, all i'm asking is, TOLONGLAH, BERHENTILAH TANYA SOALAN "BILA NAK ADA BABY" to married couple yg belum ada anak. Especially on this coming raya, sanak saudara semua berkumpul, just watch your mouth, think before you ask. Kunci je mulut tu bab2 anak ni, kalau org tu cite, ok dengar. Kalau dia tak cite, diam sudahhhh!
Sorry for being harsh, Ramona cuma wakilkan for these women utk sampaikan apa yg patut. I'm lucky I didn't have to go through that, but this is the least i can do to help. Salam ramadhan & selamat berbuka semua.
long distance relationship depression 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的最佳貼文
🎶 這一瞬間 有一百萬個可能 暖這冬心 或面對寒冷?
(English writing below)
因爲各種元素
我無法見
每個需要我的人
請原諒我
我寫文章做直播
無論我們距離多遠
你都能讀到看到聽到
感受到我的關心
我沒有摒棄你
在新加坡
憂鬱症自殺已不是大人的專利
10-29歲的死亡
主導原因就是自殺
2017年裡
361人自殺身亡
129位是60歲以上的老人
死於自殺的人
比交通意外死亡多2.5倍
超過66.2%的自殺者
是男性
每天平均有超過一個人自殺
(資料取自https://www.sos.org.sg/)
風水不好
八字帶來的
名字有自殺格
社會風氣
健康、感情、金錢
家庭失和
很多很多的因素等
我坐公車地鐵時
看出很多人
裡面很痛苦的掙扎著
我默念咒語
祈求佛菩薩加持
願他們都能離苦得樂
我終於明白
為什麼師父說
有時也想不要看得出
有位30出歲的女客人
從未算過命
我問她爲何找我
她說:
「我追蹤妳很久了」
「我認為妳一定能夠幫到我」
憂鬱症一直困擾著她
但常人根本看不出
她問:
「我照著妳說的去做,就會有用嗎?」
我口說無憑
妳不試著做
又如何知道我準呢?
給自己一個機會
也請給我一個機會
證明給妳看,好嗎?
祇要你肯打開心房
讓陽光照進來
幸福就在不遠處
你有佛性
你是珍貴的
請不要自殺
阿彌陀佛 🙏
到Youtube看影片 ► : https://youtu.be/wYpxaopLGwg
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Because of various factors
I am unable to meet
everyone who needs me
Please forgive me
I write articles
I do Lives
No matter how great the distance is between us
You will still be able to
read, see, hear and feel
the care I have for you
I did not abandon you
In Singapore
depression and suicide are no longer
exclusive to adults
The leading cause for deaths
between age 10-29,
is suicide
In 2017,
361 people killed themselves
of which
129 are elderly above 60 years old
Suicide deaths are 2.5 times more
than traffic accident deaths
Over 66.2% suicides
are male
(Data from https://www.sos.org.sg/)
Poor Feng Shui
Bazi prone to suicide
Chinese name has suicidal strokes/number
Society fad
Health, relationship, money issues
Family disharmony
Many many factors etc
When I take the bus/MRT
I can often read
the inner struggles and pains
many commuters are having
I recite Buddhist mantras silently
May the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas
bless them
May they be able to be free from sufferings
and attain happiness
I finally understand
why Shifu used to say
he sometimes wish
he was unable to decipher
A female client in her 30s
had never had her Bazi analysed
I asked why she looked for me
She said,
"I have been following you for a long time"
"I think you can definitely help me"
She had been shrouded in depression
but it was not noticeable by ordinary people
She asked,
"If I follow what you said, will it help?"
My words alone are no proof
If you do not at least try
how will you know that I am accurate?
Give yourself a chance
And please also give me a chance
to show it to you
If you are willing to open up your heart
and let the sunlight stream in
Happiness isn't that far away
There is a Buddha nature in you
You are precious
Please do not kill yourself
Amitabha 🙏
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