早起念英文,今天念的這篇文章有關親子教養,談的是《4 Types of Parenting Styles and Their Effects on Kids》(4種教養方式及其對孩子的影響
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「What's Your Parenting Style?」
你的教養方式為何呢?
(其實我覺得我都是被孩子教養~~嗚嗚嗚~)
接下來就是本文囉!來看看你是哪一種父母吧!
Your parenting style can affect everything from how much your child weighs to how she feels about herself.
你的教養方式會影響一切,從你孩子的體重到她對自己的感覺。
*Weighs體重 affect影響 from….to從…到…
It's important to ensure your parenting style is supporting healthy growth and development because the way you interact with your child and how you discipline her will influence her for the rest of her life.
確保您的教養方式支持健康成長和發展很重要,因為您與孩子互動的方式以及您對她的管教方式將影響她的餘生。
Ensure確保 interact 互動 discipline管教 influence影響
Researchers have identified four types of parenting styles:
研究人員定義了四種類型的教養方式:
Identify定義
• Authoritarian(專制)
• Authoritative(權威式)
• Permissive(寬容的、放縱的)
• Uninvolved(不參與的)
Each style takes a different approach to raising children and can be identified by a number of different characteristics.
每種教養方式都採用不同的方法來撫養孩子,並且可以透過許多不同的特徵來辨別。
Approach方法 / a number of許多/ characteristic特徵
Authoritarian Parenting
專制型的教養
Do any of these statements sound like you?
這些陳述中的任何一個聽起來像你嗎?
• You believe kids should be seen and not heard.
你相信孩子應該被看到而不是被聽到
• it comes to rules, you believe it's "my way or the highway."
當談到規則時,你相信應該是“聽我的不然就滾蛋”
• You don't take your child's feelings into consideration.
你並沒有考慮孩子的感受。
(話說,有爸媽會這樣承認嗎?)
If any of those ring true, you might be an authoritarian parent. Authoritarian parents believe kids should follow the rules without exception.
如果其中任何一項屬實,您可能是專制型父母。專制型父母認為孩子應該毫無例外地遵守規則。
Exception例外
原文出處
https://www.verywellfamily.com/types-of-parenting-styles-1095045
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這是今天早上六點半叫孩子起床上學後我讀的英文文章,不知道大家覺得我可以撐多久呢?
同時也有24部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過0的網紅nana lam,也在其Youtube影片中提到,- Hello,上星期跟大家說過會分享一下冬天的穿搭 現在影片來啦~這幾套都是我最近經常穿的 希望大家喜歡這條影片~ ----------------- Song List Harris Cole - game over! ----------------- * INSTAGRAM NANA : ...
life is a highway 在 林绿 Lynn Facebook 的最讚貼文
You were spotted on a bustling highway.
Tiny, ugly, tailless and terrified.
Your little body trembling with fear, a strong urine stench was emitting from your body.
A week later. I woke up to you snuggling in my bed; pillow to be exact, securely, warmly.
Since then new house laws were enforced.
My bed was your bed. I was your mother. I was your favourite human who provides you unlimited food and endless playtime.
You then befriended Twelve and Monkey.
Three of you shared a bed, a blanket, a bowl of water.
But not their food.
You, however, welcomed them to enjoy your bowl of kibbles generously.
My first thought was: what a loving cat.
In hindsight, you probably thought: The human will refill my bowl with fresh kibbles. Two of you can have my leftovers.
You were named Goku for two reasons; too vigorous as a kitten and for a long time I believed you were immortal, just like the manga character.
4 months later we moved.
You grew into a rebellious teenager. Longed for a taste of freedom and the outside world.
Your free and wild spirit wouldn’t keep you home. You broke the mosquito net and habitually left house for wildlife adventure.
Once you didn’t return for one and a half day.
Your picture was up. I canvassed the neighbourhood and called for you.
Nothing.
I thought you were gone for good. You craze for freedom after all.
The second night you returned meowing for food and water and snuggles. I performed a dramatic scene.
I believed you understood my performance, because ever since, you never once spent another night out.
You always come home.
Your freedom didn’t come free. It came with three cat bells.
When the three cat bells jangling they played as a smoothing refrain.They became my lullaby that reassured that you were around, healthily, happily.
And it calmed my anxious heart.
You. My lizard catcher. My life saviour.
My whole life, the relationship between the lizards and me have been fiery.
Shrieking, bouncing, yelling when there’s one.
You appeared to protect me from them.
I felt safe under your surveillance.
Despite some odd days you instinctively showed appreciation by bringing one to bed, at two in the morning, your appreciation is very much appreciated.
But now my lizard catcher is gone.
The walls creaked the night you left.
Lizards paraded in the house, hissed loudly, as if they were celebrating victory their biggest enemy, my lizard catcher has gone forever.
I loathed them for that.
Over the past one month, home has become something else.
It feels empty without your surveillance.
Soundless without your bells jangling.
The bed and pillow feel naked.
The air smells bitter and heavy and icy.
My body and imagination have gone riot.
Every insect I see around the house I suspect that is you come back to pay a visit.
Then my lungs behaving strange. Like a puntured balloon that will never reach a full measure of oxygen.
My heart feels like its sinking one inch deeper into a dark abyss each time I think of you.
A few times the baby at next house cries and I mistaken that is you that came home meowing for me.
Only to be reminded you are gone.
And I feel abandoned.
The day I planted your ashes in the white Morning Glory.
A butterfly dropped by.
Watching me place your Morning Glory on your favourite, regular spot near the gate, carefully, peacefully.
Now whenever my hearts sinks one inch deeper.
I step out of the house and stare at you; your white Morning Glory.
And I see you: your obstinacy, your haughtiness, your delicacy.
Your White Morning Glory, it’s growing free and it’s growing wild.
Just like you.
life is a highway 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
I remember when we thought we had forever in our hands.
I remember the day the music died.
The Road - Emmylou Harris
I can still remember every song you played
Long ago when we were younger
and we rocked the night away
How could I see a future then
where you would not grow old?
Such a fire in our belly, such a hunger in our souls
I guess I've grown to love you
in those words roll off the tongue
Seems that we were traveling, under some old lucky sun
I know I couldn't save you and no one was to blame
But the road we shared together once
will never be the same
Hey, gone a long way
Won't be coming 'round again
Hey, with a song I pray
And on the wings of a song I'll fly away
I wandered in the wilderness
For a while, I was so lost
To everything there is a reason
And every blessing has its cost
So I took what you left me
Put it to some use
When looking for an answer
With those three chords and the truth
I come down from the mountain
I come walking in your shoes
I was taken for a gambler
When I had no more to lose
For you put me on that pathway
How could I refuse
And I've spent my whole life out here
Working on the blues
So I've carried on
You can't be haunted by the past
People come, people go
And nothing ever lasts
But I still think about you
Wonder where you are
Can you see me from someplace
Up there among the stars?
But down here under heaven
There never was a chart
To guide our way across
This crooked highway of the heart
And if it's only all about
The journey in the end
On that road I'm glad
I came to know you, my old friend
Hey, gone a long way
Won't be coming 'round again
Hey, with a song I pray
And on the wings of a song I'll fly away
3 years. Rest well, my friend, my family, my conscience, my little sister.
https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-road/428367393?i=428367397
life is a highway 在 nana lam Youtube 的最佳貼文
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Hello,上星期跟大家說過會分享一下冬天的穿搭
現在影片來啦~這幾套都是我最近經常穿的
希望大家喜歡這條影片~
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Song List
Harris Cole - game over!
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NANA : https://www.instagram.com/lamna/
* FACEBOOK
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#HongKong #winter #outfit
life is a highway 在 nana lam Youtube 的精選貼文
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Hello,這個星期去了Staycation~
順便為大家介紹一下這間酒店
和分享一些煮食的影片~
酒店 : Page 148
地址 : 尖沙咀柯士甸道148號
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Song List
Haroula Rose - Free To Be Me
Aso - My
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NANA : https://www.instagram.com/lamna/
* FACEBOOK
http://facebook.com/nanalamm
* E-MAIL
nanalammmm@gmail.com
#HongKong #dailylife #Vlog
life is a highway 在 nana lam Youtube 的最讚貼文
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Hello,大家好久不見~
對上一次的影片已經在一年前上傳
上年因為疫情的關係 很多時候都留在家裡
想不到idea要拍什麼 也不知道家裡可以拍什麼 哈哈
新的一年決定走出confort zone 嘗試一下拍家居的影片
希望大家喜歡啦~
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Song List
Haroula Rose - Free To Be Me
Rookie - Eden
Rookie - Park Bird
Andrew Ryan - I'm Not In Love
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NANA : https://www.instagram.com/lamna/
* FACEBOOK
http://facebook.com/nanalamm
* E-MAIL
nanalammmm@gmail.com
#HongKong #dailylife #Vlog