10 ข้อ ถนอมความรัก
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1. เป็นเพื่อนที่รักกัน:
หากลองสังเกตดู เราผิดใจกับเพื่อนน้อยกว่าคนรัก แถมยังคืนดีง่ายกว่า นั่นเป็นเพราะว่าเรามักคาดหวังกับคนรักมากกว่าเพื่อน กระนั้น-ความสวยงามของคนรักมีอยู่ว่ายิ่งนานวันไป ความหวานจะค่อยๆ จางลงกลายเป็นความผูกพัน เหมือนเพื่อนสนิทที่ "รู้กัน" นั่นคือข้อดี เพราะเมื่อเป็นเพื่อนกันแล้วเราจะคาดหวังน้อยลง หายโกรธง่ายขึ้น แต่เพื่อนคนนี้สำคัญกว่าคนอื่น เพราะเขาคือ "เพื่อนชีวิต"
...Continue Reading10 items to take care of love.
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1. Be friends who love each other:
If you notice, we are less wrong with friends, love, and it's easier to return. That's because we always expect more than friends. - the beauty of lovers are that the longer the more days, sweetness will slowly fade into bonding like Best friends who " know " is the good thing because when we are friends, we will expect less. It's easier to get angry. But this friend is more important than others because they are " life friend "
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2. Love each other, not to compete with each other. Do good:
Some people like to note that between themselves and love "do good things" but in the area of love is not the race track. Relationships are available and swap around. When we often see their goodness. See the goodness of the goodness. The other one may be me. I can overlook the good things that they do because in that moment we are blind from anger.
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3. sorry and thank you:
Two simple words, but often fade away when we are in a relationship for a long time. Apology seems to fall out of the mouth. Sometimes I know that you are wrong for lovers. There is no dignity. Sorry will help heal the wound instead of letting go of chronic wound. It's difficult to heal. Thank you is another love. It shows that we are important and good things that they give. These two magic spells often have a smooth relationship.
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4. Let the irritability go away with the night:
A good relationship is to find a way to get back, not to let one side. Many elders always teach that no matter what happens, no matter who is wrong or right. When both fall asleep. One morning should fade away and find a way. Good night. Start a new story with sunrise.
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5. Be a power to each other:
We feel good when we are near, always a " dream support " listen to anyone. Don't rush to the dream, but encourage us to think " for recharge each other, not weaken each other. When we are close, we are close, there is powerful. We will want to tell him stories.
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6. Be a sponge to suffer:
Apart from recharging positive, good lovers often absorb negative power from the other's mind. Listening without judgement. Open the space for the other to speak all. Finally he may show fragile or Your own mistakes should be the safest area in the world. Even if the whole world doesn't understand, there is one person who is ready to understand and listen.
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Lol laugh at small frustrating:
People are often irritated with repeated habits that often annoy. Sometimes it's very small things. Some couples are frustrated that the other people don't close the lid from honey. Sometimes it's a big. If it's possible, try to laugh at these small things and think about it. There is no difference in his corner. We may be born to close the toothpaste cover for him. He was born to keep our favorite mug that we have to be together like to be together like this. But if you can think like this. Don't have to be upset with small things.
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8. sit in time machine:
Let's go back to talk about when we just know each other. Open old photos, play, pick up the same gift to dusting the house. Pick up the book that we used to read again. These conversations help the relationship not get old by time. In fact, we are. We have good memories together. Let's think back.
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9. Be part of each other's dreams:
Even if we are not in with our lovers. Whether it's running, listening to music, taking photos, cooking, snorkeling, cuddle, etc. We can join what our lovers are too. It's a lot of time together. In new activities, of course he is part of our crazy activities too.
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10. Don't expect happiness:
There is a life of love with the angle. This is part of life lessons that will give us the hope, no freedom. Practice our mind to know how to know how to forgive, have mercy, reduce ego to admit that no one is ours and we rely on. Not everything. If you can look at love with glasses like this, we can live with some unbeautiful moments of love. This is the opportunity to practice the mind. Learn suffering from the most, which may be the most painful or the most angry. But this is The best lesson like this. Bad times will be one of life. If both of the smooth mind, they can go through the relationship without traumatized. When suffering passes, happiness will come back. Walking around like this as usual
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All of these are not easy, and it is not " technique " if it is " practice " that people in love, because the relationship is not different from anything else in the world. There are beautiful and the cuddle ugly. Knowing each other well means seeing around the side.
Love always comes with responsibility and mental duty. Love is always caused by two people. It may start with one person. But when there is no solution. That means both of them can't pass the exam. It's not passed. It's not wrong. What is everyone on the path of learning to love, which couples are always through their mind purifying together.
In some dimensions, being together may not be happier than being alone, but in some dimensions, being together makes you feel more meaning. The meaning is because we are not alone.
Not every love is worth keeping, but for love worth keeping and neglected is a shame.
On the day that we feel "love each other" is not the last day if it's just the first day of the beginning to learn to love that person on the day he is not cute either. He has to learn to love us on the day
I have passed this story again and again. Then I said "love each other" but even then we didn't care about this word.
Because it's a single flesh with two people's lives.Translated
