PERLU BUAT SEBELUM 30 TAHUN
1. Perbaiki bacaan al-Quran
Sebelum masuk usia 30 tahun, kita sudah boleh fikir-fikirkan balik bacaan al-Quran kita. Apakah sudah lancar ataupun belum? Sudah khatam ataupun tidak?
...Continue ReadingGotta do it before 30 years
1. Improve the Quran recitation
Before turning 30, we can already think about our Quran reading. Has it been smooth or not? Have you been khatam or not?
Until when are we going to be forced to read the Quran? We're not kids anymore to be told.
So, look for any Quran teacher who can help us. Hopefully we can also be the priests and teachers of the Quran for our couples and children. Let them be able to read the Quran with our hands.
2. Remove negative attitude
This is the important thing because our behavior will be a role model for children. Moreover it will determine the mood of our household atmosphere.
I understand, young blood is still hot flowing inside. But if possible, before the 30 s we train ourselves to leave out abusive speech and writings. Fear of hardship when it becomes a habit.
It's worse if the kids get tempered. Moreover when hot angry and stubborn. It's the same as the type of night must hang out and hang out for hours outside with friends.
Don 't... don' t... no...
Sometimes it's okay. But if everyday, don't.
3. Ways we are on social media
It's not just our personal that needs to be fixed, but the way we social media is also the same. Ensure that our sharing posts, let our pictures be useful. Nothing makes us embarrassed later.
Not what, I always imagined if our young pictures dressed in eyes, or our pictures are showing disrespectful gestures being seen by our children growing up and they're copying... think we can accept it or not?
After all this is the phase of maturity.
We are on our way to leave young age to adult. We are not young forever.
4. Become the foot of the mosque and the foot of the
In the end of the 20 s if mosque / surau is always visited, thank you so much. It means we are in a good atmosphere, insya-Allah.
Because of that time, we're in the right place and hanging out with the right friends. If we're stressful or ' too much ' in action, insyaAllah there will be friends who advise.
Should be, the 30 s later there will be no problem going to mosque / surau. There is no more shame if people call us mosque gang.
No more whispers of heart, you're still young... enjoy first.
It's been 30 years, where is the youth.
5. Get used to circumcision practices
Every consistent practice starts with 'training ups' until it becomes a habit.
So, circumcision prayers, fasting fasting and circumcision practices can be practiced early. In order not to feel burdened.
It's nothing, the old people said they are looking at it.
After all, the circumcision is the one who will accommodate the lompong in the fardu.
6. Upgrade religious knowledge
This phase 30 s to 40 s is a hard phase. Running phase is not enough land. Everything wants to be chased. Knowledge, career, children. Short words all. Huhu
Because we're always married at that age, there's already a few children, the commitment is increasing. Plus the career is increasingly highlights, but the spirit and energy are not like young people anymore.
So if that's the time we're all going to walk together, the feeling is very burdened.
Moreover this religious knowledge is not for us who are practical, but for family too. So, prepare the supply of this religious knowledge since single and young. Our thoughts are still fresh and still free.
The early we start, the better. Because we get ready early, practice early.
So the conclusion, all of these must be done now, need to be planned and trained... not after the 30 s.
Also in personal financial management issues. Don't wait to get married, just planning.
Planning our financial management and retirement since we were single. Invest some of our money for financial management knowledge through the purchase of books or ebooks.
While we're still single or maybe just one's child, we have to work this way. Because of this time we still have free times, commitment is still lacking.
So start now. Don't fight.
Because the concept the faster we act, the easier to change. If all of these were done before the 30 s, it would be the best.
Okay?
Hopefully. Praying a lot.
Aizuddin Kamarul Zaman
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