Amanda Bennett: We need a heroic narrative for death
This video was produced by TEDMED. April 2013
http://www.ted.com/talks/amanda_bennett_a_heroic_narrative_for_letting_go?utm_content=awesm-publisher&utm_medium=on.ted.com-static&awesm=on.ted.com_CostofHope&utm_source=l.facebook.com&utm_campaign=
虽然这位女士的论点和我的论点没有太多的交界，不过我很喜欢她用这样的方式来阐述死亡前对活着的希望。有尊严的离去、有尊严的道别，让生命的英雄们可以昂着胸膛、坦然离去。Bravo!!!!
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1. We never got the chance to say goodbye. We never thought it was the end. We always had hope. "The Cost Of Hope."
我们没有机会互相道别。我们没有想过那就是终结 我们总是充满希望。“希望的代价”
2. The medical professionals too, you out there, you're in denial too. You want to help. You want to fix. You want to do. You've succeeded in everything you've done, and having a patient die, well, that must feel like failure.
你作为医生，也是在拒绝现实，你想帮助，你想治疗，你想做一些事情。你取得过很多成功，但是现在你的病人要死了，一定感觉非常失败。
3. Ira Byock, the director of palliative medicine at Dartmouth said, "You know, the best doctor in the world has never succeeded in making anyone immortal."
达特茅斯学院缓和医疗部的 主管伊拉·比约克 说过，“最优秀的医生也无法使人长生不死。”
4. the experts call "denial," I call "hope,"and I'd like to borrow a phrase from my friends in software design. You just redefine denial and hope, and it becomes a feature of being human. It's not a bug. It's a feature.
医生们所说的“拒绝现实”，我说的“希望” 然后我想借用 一个做软件界的朋友的一句话 你重新定义拒绝现实和希望 这是作为人类的一个功能 而不是一个病毒，这是一个功能。
5.Maybe we don't need a new piece of paper. Maybe we need a new story, not a story about giving up the fight or of hopelessness, but rather a story of victory and triumph, of a valiant battle and, eventually, a graceful retreat, a story that acknowledges that not even the greatest general defeats every foe, that no doctor has ever succeeded in making anyone immortal, and that no wife, no matter how hard she tried, has ever stopped even the bravest, wittiest and most maddeningly lovable husband from dying when it was his time to go.
我们可能不需要一张新的纸片 而是需要一个新的故事 不是一个因为没有希望 而放弃战斗的故事 而是一个关于胜利 关于勇敢战斗 和优雅撤退的故事 一个承认 最优秀的将军也不能战胜每个敌人 最优秀的医生 也不能使人长生不死 一个再努力的妻子 也不能阻止 最勇敢可爱的丈夫 死亡的故事。
6. We have a noble path to curing the disease, patients and doctors alike, but there doesn't seem to be a noble path to dying. Dying is seen as failing, and we had a heroic narrative for fighting together, but we didn't have a heroic narrative for letting go. So maybe we need a narrative for acknowledging the end, and for saying goodbye, and maybe our new story will be about a hero's fight, and a hero's goodbye.
我们有高贵的治疗方式 病人和医生都有 但是我们并没有 高贵的死亡方式 死亡被认为是失败 我们有一个共同战斗的 英雄故事 却没有一个放手面对死亡的英雄故事。我们也许需要一个 承认结束，说再见的故事 也许我们新的故事 是关于一个英雄的战斗和离世 。
7. Greek poet Constantine Cavafy, "As if long-prepared, as if courageous, as it becomes you who were worthy of such a city, approach the window with a firm step, and with emotion, but not with the entreaties or the complaints of a coward, as a last enjoyment, listen to the sounds, the exquisite instruments of the musical troops, and bid her farewell, the Alexandria you are losing."
希腊诗人康斯坦丁诺斯·卡瓦菲斯：“如同长期准备着， 仿佛勇敢面对着，它成为你 值得战斗的城市，迈着坚实的步伐与情感，靠近窗口， 而不是一个懦夫的诉求 或抱怨， 作为最后的享受， 听着那声音， 那精湛的演奏组成的乐队， 与她告别， 你正在迷失的亚历山大。”
8. Hope isn't a bug. It's a feature.
希望不是一个病毒，而是是一个功能。
Amanda Bennett and her husband were passionate and full of life all throughout their lives together — and up until the final days, too. Bennett gives a sweet yet powerful talk on why, for the loved ones of the dying, having hope for a happy ending shouldn't warrant a diagnosis of "denial." She calls for a more heroic narrative for death — to match the ones we have in life.
everything 软件 在 [推薦] Everything_當今最快桌面搜尋軟體- 看板EZsoft 的美食出口停車場
軟體名稱：Everything
軟體功能：檔案搜尋
軟體特色：僅支援NTFS檔案格式(這算特色？)
官方網站：https://www.voidtools.com/
下載連結：https://www.voidtools.com/download.php
推薦原因：真的是太快了，這絕不是其他桌面搜尋軟體能比的
誰適合用：硬碟格式使用NTFS的人(目前大多數用windows的都是吧)
誰不適合用：不是windows使用者，硬碟格式不是NTFS的人
使用感想：
這軟體不像一般的桌面搜尋需要建立目錄(index)，
他使用了NTFS本身的檔案表(table)，這是NTFS本身的一個項目，
就因為NTFS已經建立好了，所以省卻了還要重頭建立目錄，或是重頭搜尋的時間，
Windows本身的檔案搜尋卻捨棄這點，實在很有意思。
缺點當然就是只支援NTFS，不過目前WindowsXP佔大多數市場，
大部分用XP的應該都是用NTFS，所以這缺點也算不大，
只是真的有需要搜尋其他檔案系統格式的人，這軟體的幫助是「零」。
(我有一顆放了上百GB檔案的Ext3格式，就完全不顯示....)
這軟體附了架設FTP跟HTTP server的功能，目前還沒實驗。
附註：
建議下載Beta版，因為我在更新說明裡看到
Saturday, 25 October 2008: Version 1.2.0.317
added unicode support
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